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Elliot413
on 8/4/16 7:16 pm
VSG on 07/12/16
Topic: RE: Buddy...anyone?

Let's talk by message and email.  I am a good positive support buddy.

zsnaani
on 8/3/16 7:10 am
RNY on 07/24/15
Topic: Buddy...anyone?

Struggling!!! 

A whole year has gone by already and I have received more negative than positive from family and so called friends.  Now I am concerned and feel ashamed because I have not lost as much as I should have.  I did not even celebrate my first surgerversery (sp).  Just healing from two major surgeries at the same time (RNY & gallbladder) was enough but now I realize that the negative reactions sent me more into a depressive state.  My starting weight was over 500, maybe there is a willing buddy out there who has been successful with losing a massive amount of weight too. 

MyTime2Change
on 8/2/16 8:52 am
Topic: New member

 

Hello everyone,

 

I am new to Obesity Help and wanted to greet everyone. I have reviewed several of your posts and have already found helpful information in them; thank you for sharing your experiences. 

 

I'm a married mother of five and I have been dealing with my weight for quite some time, but the last 10-15 years have been the most challenging. I have decided after much research and much procrastination to take action to take charge of my health and my life. I have decided to pursue self-pay gastric sleeve surgery in Mexico, and hope to get it done this fall, God willing. 

 

A lot of what has prevented me from seeking the surgery all these years was denial. I felt that if I just I applied myself I could "do it on my own without surgery." I maintained that state of mind for years, yet nothing changed in my life. I've since realized how much I have been gaslighting myself. There is NO shame in seeking help for this condition. I slowly came to this realization once it began to dawn upon me how much better I was getting as a person by treating my depression and other issues and how I would be concerned if a person with a psychiatric disability/mental illness was determined to "do it on my own." Should we take initiative and be an active part of the process? Yes. But we cannot let a mindset like that reign if it prevents the process from even getting started!

 

Nothing will change unless we make it change.

 

I welcome any/all feedback from you all, as I personally know no one whose ever had the gastric sleeve; only the bypass and lap band. And I seldom hear much from our people - not that we aren't having the surgery, but I have mainly come across posts from white people as opposed to people of color. I'm not discounting their perspectives, but as a black woman it's helpful to me to know more about what other people from my background have experienced. 

 

Thank you. 

MyTime2Change
on 8/2/16 6:49 am
Topic: RE: Newbie

Hi Jazzygirl,

 

I would love to communicate with you if possible. I am very interested in getting the gastic sleeve in Mexico too, as I also have to go the self-pay route. I lived in San Diego for over five years (but that was a decade ago), so I'm familiar with Tijuana. But I have so many questions about what to expect pre and post procedure, and I worry how long I would need to be "out" on leave since I am very new to my job and don't want to have any issues with them. Is it unrealistic to expect to be back at work in a week? (I teach at a college, so no heavy lifting, but I do have to engage with people quite a bit.)

 

Congrats on your surgery!

 

 

(deactivated member)
on 7/30/16 6:53 pm
Topic: RE: Weight Gain AFTER surgery? Scary!!!!!

Hi Willie,

Congrats on your original weight loss. Most people experience a 10 to 20% bounce up after the initial loss, so nothing out of the ordinary here.

Regarding calories, everyone needs are different. I'm a guy and eat way more than many of the posters but most of them are woman and I'd expect them to eat fewer calories. Your surgery type versus other people's will also influence how many calories you need in maintenance mode.

Lastly, I don't think it matters what anyone's goal weight is. Your body gravitates to a natural point of equilibrium. 

Good luck with your journey!

Elliot413
on 7/15/16 9:32 am
VSG on 07/12/16
Topic: RE: Impact On Relationships

Thank you for your candid words.  I will take them under advisement.

(deactivated member)
on 7/14/16 8:40 pm
Topic: RE: help help help

You are  SO brave and resourceful

(deactivated member)
on 7/14/16 8:38 pm
Topic: RE: help help help

Hi  Babe !!!    ((( Yes  you have friends ))) please   reach out personally I will accept nd help U every way I can   hugs

RhondaMcD370
on 7/14/16 4:47 pm
Topic: RE: Apollo Overstitch

I am going to be scheduled for the same and there isn't a lot of information.  I can't find much on results.  I'm really torn. 

hershey dream
on 7/14/16 1:54 pm - Duluth, GA
Topic: RE: Best Products you've used in terms of protein and supplements?

I'm 10 years postop and I still keep Syntrax Nectar protein on hand.  It's available at Vitamin Shoppe.  I'm not so specific on brands of supplements, I usually just stock up when my local drug store has a BOGO sale.  

Life is not about making it through the storm....but learning how to dance in the rain.      
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