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Topic: RE: Someone please help...bipolar=no wls approval????
i have the same issues and, frankly, when i was getting my RNY in late 2006, i simply cose not to disclose them (mind you, i was self pay and had my surgery in mexico so i don't know if you have the same option if you insurance company already has your psych history.)
In any case, this is, after all, your body and you are an adult who is able to make informed choices. I hope you get your wls without having to jump through too many hurdles. in my case, RNY did not cure bipolar or anxiety but i am now thin, no longer have eating disorders and my self and body image has improved dramatically. it also has made me much less prone to severe depression, which was a result of poor body image..
good luck to you
Nat
In any case, this is, after all, your body and you are an adult who is able to make informed choices. I hope you get your wls without having to jump through too many hurdles. in my case, RNY did not cure bipolar or anxiety but i am now thin, no longer have eating disorders and my self and body image has improved dramatically. it also has made me much less prone to severe depression, which was a result of poor body image..
good luck to you
Nat
Topic: RE: Pre-Op
I am not sure I understand your question. I had my psych eval done by my personal psychiatrist. I was already in psychotherapy for many years prior to my surgery. If they are recommending you get into regular therapy, I am supportive of that. There is usually, more times than not, an underlying psychological issue beneath the overeating that caused our weight gain. A good therapist can help bring those issues to light. As we say in our support group, the surgeon operates on our stomach, not our heads. We still have whatever it was that made us eat like we did after the surgeon is done his/her work.
Trish
Trish
Seek always to do some good, somewhere. Every man has to seek in his own way to realize his true worth. You must give some time to your fellow man. For remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too.
Albert Schweitzer
Albert Schweitzer

Topic: Pre-Op
Did anyone else have to "Establish a relationship" with a psychiatrist/counsler etc. when they seen the psych. from the surgeons office? I'm not really sure why she did this, but it's preventing me from going any further with my surgery until I get in to see a psychologist.
Topic: RE: Bi Polar and medications?!?!
I have diagnosed BPD and Major Depression. I take Geodon, Topamax and Liquid Prozac, all with no weight gain and no side effects. Good luck to you!
Topic: RE: AA people????
Hi Leslie..
Been sober myself since 11-2006. This board use to be the Addictions Board and changed to Mental Health a little bit ago. But some wonderful people on here in all walks of their journey.. mental and physcial.. and BOTH
Glad you found us!!
Rhonda
Hi Leslie..

Been sober myself since 11-2006. This board use to be the Addictions Board and changed to Mental Health a little bit ago. But some wonderful people on here in all walks of their journey.. mental and physcial.. and BOTH

Glad you found us!!
Rhonda
It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters in the end. ~Ursula K. LeGuin
Topic: ~SPIRITUAL NOT RELIGIOUS~ A DAY AT A TIME
06/08 REFLECTION FOR THE DAY
A friend in The Program taught me to look at excessive guilt in an entirely new way, suggesting that guilt was nothing but a sort of reverse pride. A decent regret for what has happened is fine, he said. But guilt, no. I've since learned that condemning ourselves for mistakes we've made is just as bad as condemning others for theirs. We're not really equipped to make judgements, not even of ourselves. DO I STILL SOMETIMES "BEAT MYSELF TO DEATH" WHEN I APPEAR TO BE FAILING?
TODAY I PRAY
May I be wary of keeping my guilty role alive long after I should have left it behind. May I know the difference between regret and guilt. May I recognize that long-term guilt may infer an exaggerated idea of my own importance, as well as present self-righteousness. May God alone be my judge.
TODAY I WILL REMEMBER
Guilt may be pride in reverse.
A friend in The Program taught me to look at excessive guilt in an entirely new way, suggesting that guilt was nothing but a sort of reverse pride. A decent regret for what has happened is fine, he said. But guilt, no. I've since learned that condemning ourselves for mistakes we've made is just as bad as condemning others for theirs. We're not really equipped to make judgements, not even of ourselves. DO I STILL SOMETIMES "BEAT MYSELF TO DEATH" WHEN I APPEAR TO BE FAILING?
TODAY I PRAY
May I be wary of keeping my guilty role alive long after I should have left it behind. May I know the difference between regret and guilt. May I recognize that long-term guilt may infer an exaggerated idea of my own importance, as well as present self-righteousness. May God alone be my judge.
TODAY I WILL REMEMBER
Guilt may be pride in reverse.

It is good to have an end to journey towards; but it is the journey that matters in the end. ~Ursula K. LeGuin
Topic: Grateful Post..
Good Monday Morning..
Today I am grateful..
For another day..
That I got to spend time with Debra and Stromboli.. I love you both..
For calls from friends that believe in me enough to ask for advise..
For NO speeding tickets..
That I know that I am a better man than I was before..
Today I am grateful..
For another day..
That I got to spend time with Debra and Stromboli.. I love you both..
For calls from friends that believe in me enough to ask for advise..
For NO speeding tickets..
That I know that I am a better man than I was before..
Ramon Lopez
Co-Founder
http://www.rydobesity.com
Interview on www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com Please check it out.. http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/programs/wls-journeys/wls-journeys-guest-ramon-lopez.html/
Video, about me, made by my best friend Yvonne.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gCxNTyRUo0
PEACE
464/409/200
Thanks Obesityhelp.com
Co-Founder
http://www.rydobesity.com
Interview on www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com Please check it out.. http://www.weightlosssurgerychannel.com/programs/wls-journeys/wls-journeys-guest-ramon-lopez.html/
Video, about me, made by my best friend Yvonne.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3gCxNTyRUo0
PEACE
464/409/200
Thanks Obesityhelp.com
Topic: RE: Bi Polar and medications?!?!
I take Geodon 60 mg at night. No weight gain, no side effects other than a good night's sleep. Get the help you need. Research the meds. Lexapro did nothing for me. I also take Effexor in the AM. I am quite stable with my moods. Kathy
Topic: RE: AA people????
Hi Leslie,
I'm coming up on on one year - June 18th. It feels wonderful. I love becoming sober. I am pretty active in AA, although I work 2 jobs and chase 4 kids. Would love to chat with you anytime. I also have alot of emotional healing - major trauma - to work through. Don't know why it just started up. My drinking career wasn't long - about 18 months, but long enough to cause me trouble. I absolutely love the people in AA - they are true friends.
Kathy
I'm coming up on on one year - June 18th. It feels wonderful. I love becoming sober. I am pretty active in AA, although I work 2 jobs and chase 4 kids. Would love to chat with you anytime. I also have alot of emotional healing - major trauma - to work through. Don't know why it just started up. My drinking career wasn't long - about 18 months, but long enough to cause me trouble. I absolutely love the people in AA - they are true friends.
Kathy
Topic: AA people????
Hi! My name is Leslie and I am an alcoholic. I have been sober since October 4, 2005.
ANyone here?? I have been looking for an AA board not thinking MENTAL HEALTH! Duh! To me I am normal! LOL
Anyway, I wanted to talk to those who are on this journey with our specific and unique situations. I have healing my emotional self and now it is my physical self I am getting ready to take care of. I have surgery on the 25th of June and I am so excited!!
Lets chat!
Leslie
ANyone here?? I have been looking for an AA board not thinking MENTAL HEALTH! Duh! To me I am normal! LOL
Anyway, I wanted to talk to those who are on this journey with our specific and unique situations. I have healing my emotional self and now it is my physical self I am getting ready to take care of. I have surgery on the 25th of June and I am so excited!!
Lets chat!
Leslie
a person often meets his destiny on the road he took to avoid it
HW 274/pre-op 266/NW210/GW160 5' 8"