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chellelynn3
on 7/29/11 4:28 pm - san bernardino, CA
Topic: RE: One-derland!!!
congrats! thats great news!
DeeAnnM
on 7/29/11 6:43 am
Topic: RE: I hate reality TV
I almost had WLS also. That's how I ended up here. But I realized that regardless of the surgery I was going to have to change my eating habits. I've seen people lose a bunch of weight with WLS, then gain it all back because they made no long-term changes to their eating habits. Along those lines, I watched the entire video blog of this girl who had WLS and this video, as well as a couple of her others helped me to realize that surgery alone was not going to do the trick.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not judging you. WLS is still a future option for me. But for now I'm working on changing what and how I eat.  

 
DeeAnnM
on 7/29/11 6:31 am
Topic: RE: I'm back from vacaton
You can do it! A 10 pound weight-loss in a month sounds like a great goal. Good luck! 

I have a big vaca coming up in November that I'm looking forward to, but am also scared about. I know I'll gain weight. Who wouldn't at an all-inclusive resort? But vacations are worth it, don't you think? It'll take me a few weeks to get off what I put on during that week, that's all.

 
DeeAnnM
on 7/29/11 6:24 am
Topic: One-derland!!!

I’m smiling form ear to ear today because I’ve finally done it! I reached One-derland this week! It has not been easy, and I still have a long way to go, but I know I will get there.

My motivation came from my very near miss with WLS. I had my appointment (for VSG in Mexico) scheduled, my flight booked and vacation time from work requested. Then I realized that I was going to be forced to follow a liquid diet for a couple of months. After the liquid phase I would be required to eat mostly protein and give-up most carbs. If I didn’t do this I would gain any lost weight back. I’ve seen people lose weight after WLS then gain most back because they failed to change their eating habits. I just realized that I would HAVE to change my habits regardless of surgery.

So I decided to try this on my own one last time, giving it a concerted effort. I decided to really be honest with myself about my eating and exercise, and to really follow through. I chose to not just give-up after a few weeks this time, like I have every other time in the past 12-13 years. And I chose to start with a liquid diet because I would have had to do that anyway with WLS.

What’s working for me? I have been drinking 12-14 8oz glasses of water a day. I have a fiber drink everyday, which (among other things) keeps me full for hours. I still have a couple protein shakes a day. My meals mimic those of a good WLS patient, protein first. I’ve almost completely given up starchy carbs. Except for a bite every now and then off my hubby’s dinner plate, I don’t eat pasta, potatoes, bread, chips or tortillas anymore. In week 12 I started exercising 30 minutes 3 times a week. I have little by little increased the duration and frequency of my workouts and am up to 60 minutes 5 times a week this week.

Like I said, I still have a long way to go, but another thing that’s working is not thinking about the big number. I just try to end my week at least 1 or 2 pounds lighter than the week before. So, I’m in it for the long haul.


 
tbl2008
on 7/28/11 9:18 am - Greenville, NC
Topic: RE: I hate reality TV
I think 90% of losing weight is a mental exercise rather than a physical exercise. That's why these message boards are so important to people like me. Its a way to vent, talk, chat, share, and learn about this journey. Best of luck with however you manage to get there. And you WILL get there!!
285/204/199 starting/current/goal weight
ElleBW
on 7/27/11 2:12 pm - WA
Topic: RE: I hate reality TV
Thanks! I appreciate your input. Keep up the good work!
tbl2008
on 7/27/11 1:22 pm - Greenville, NC
Topic: RE: I hate reality TV
I never really considered WLS. Looking back I was qualified for it though! I was 285+ pounds and eating out of control. I went to see a couple different doctors for some guidance on how to get healthy.

It's been a slow process but my health is improving! I stick to a low calorie diet. That way I can eat the foods i want, but not as much as i want. Now that I'm smaller I can move better and workout in the gym. I'm also enjoying yoga classes now. Unless you have a hormone problem losing weight is simple math. Calories in and calories out. I stick to about 1500 calories a day and get my heart rate in the 150's and 160's for about 30-45 per day. The body wants to be a normal size, and will start dropping down if the calories are lowered. It's just my mind and my will power that I work so hard to keep in check! Does that help? I hope so!
285/204/199 starting/current/goal weight
tbl2008
on 7/27/11 6:08 am - Greenville, NC
Topic: I'm back from vacaton
Hi all! I'm back home from my 2 week vacation! Glad to be home and back on track. What's new with you? How's your week going?

I set a new goal of 229. I gained while home and have 10 pounds to go. I hope to get there by Sept 1st. Good way to end the summer.
ElleBW
on 7/26/11 8:10 am - WA
Topic: I hate reality TV
I thought I had made my mind up about having WLS and have my first appointment set for next week. However, after hearing from a close friend who thinks it's too extreme then watching the Weight Loss Makeover on TV I am having doubts. I have tried so many times and ways to lose the weight I thought I was ready to give up, but am now just frustrated and confused. Can I do it myself??? I have a therapist to talk to, but I wanted to hear from someone who has been "there". Thanks.

Elle
DeeAnnM
on 7/25/11 4:27 am
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