Were or where did my Libido go

Heathergetbetter
on 6/25/12 3:11 am - Trenton, ON, Canada

RNY on 05/02/12

Where, oh where, can it be?
He's just as amorous as ever, but me, meh. I'd rather curl up with a good book. I've the read the first fifty shades of grey and it didn't help.
I've lost about 45lbs since surgery. Been spotting since the second week after. I go for my next depo shot on Thursday. I hope that clears up the spotting, because that adds to the not in the mood factor.

Anyways....beyond oysters....is there anything you found that gets the engine purring? Is there something I can take like spanish fly? I know I'm still greatly fatigued, but somehow still push through the exercise. I just have no desire for the more carnal exercise.

I think I'm hoping for a fix. You know..."ah, you're probably low in X" Or "take two of these and you'll be fine."

Dr Ref: Sept 9th '10, Dr. Follow up (file lost in bulk transfer) Aug '11Pre-surg Asmt Ottawa: Dec 9th '11File Transf to HRH -another bulk transf Bypass class: Feb 2 '12 Surgeon Consult: Feb 8 '12 Dietician: Feb 8 '12 Soc Wrkr: Feb 8 '12 Nurse: Feb 8 '12 Internist: Mar 9 '12 Surgeon: Apr 4 '12 Opti:Apr 18 '12 SURGERY: May 2 '12

sam1am
on 6/25/12 4:10 am

VSG on 09/08/09

You're not alone. I'm hoping someone has a miracle cure!

Sandy
                "The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody  else up"
                              Mark Twain          Animation One

stephanie2011
on 6/25/12 4:14 am - toronto, Canada

whats that??

Referral: Aug 3, 2010       Info Session: Dec 12, 2011
Nurse Appt: Jan 30, 2012    Diet/Nut Appt: Feb 8, 2012
Surgery Class: Jan 24, 2012
Meet Surgeon: Feb 8,2012    Start Optifast: April 24, 2012
Surgery Date: May 8, 2012

sam1am
on 6/25/12 4:41 am

VSG on 09/08/09

Desire to have sex.

Sandy
                "The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody  else up"
                              Mark Twain          Animation One

(deactivated member)
on 6/25/12 5:09 am - Bumfuknowhere, Canada

First of all Fifty Shades of Grey sucked so I can see why it did nothing for your libido. Not sure what all the hype was about but I am not wasting my time reading the other two after seeing how poorly written the first one was.

Now for the libido part. Have you tried watching porn without hubby around to see if that helps? Have you any toys that can rev you up? Hormones are very screwy when losing weight quickly so that could be part of it so you may just have to try different methods. Porn and toys work for me that is for sure.

sam1am
on 6/25/12 5:46 am

VSG on 09/08/09

When I saw that you had posted, I was sure you were going to say that YOU found ours, lol!

Sandy
                "The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody  else up"
                              Mark Twain          Animation One

(deactivated member)
on 6/25/12 6:06 am - Bumfuknowhere, Canada

That would have just been mean!!! True but mean. I have more than enough for many on here.

Seriously though, masturbation does wonders. The more pleasure you have the more you want.

Karen M.
on 6/25/12 3:19 pm - Mississauga, Canada

RNY on 03/21/06

You hit the nail right on the head there - the more you have the more you want. SO true.

Karen

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Nathalie_Can
on 6/25/12 7:11 am

RNY on 09/14/11

Depo was the worse thing I ever decided for me.

I never had a cycle since I was 16 and since I decided to be on Depo shots after surgery, I have my periods 24/7 since about November...actually waiting on my doc to call to get snipped...I want to be soo done with this. Sucks big time for our sex life but sorry, can't help you on the search cause thankfully, I haven't lost that....I just can't wait for this part to be over so I can get back on track *wink wink*

Best of luck on finding it back!
Nathalie

~Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you really wanted!~

Toni B.
on 6/25/12 7:45 am - Sudbury, Ontario

RNY on 01/19/12

I recommend some visual stimulation... in the form of the the new movie "Magic Mike" starring Matthew McConahey and Channing Tatum...they are male strippers in the movie! It probably doesn't have much of a plot line, but with abs like that -- who needs one! LOL
EYE CANDY! YUMMY! I'm talkin' bout 50 shades of OH HELL YEAH!

Lol

Toni..."Bravery is not the absence of fear, but the will to overcome it"
www.fatgirlchangingherworld.com Twitter:@fatgirlchanging
Surgery JAN. 19th, 2012 - Down 120 lbs & 75 inches @ my last Weigh in!!!!

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