Vent - stupid thing my husband said

NorthernStar
on 2/8/13 12:59 am - London, Canada
RNY on 06/25/12

A few months ago, my husband and I decided we would do a 5k race together in the sping and start training for it when the weather was nicer. Last night I brought it up again because we need to pick a race and have a date to start training and he said flat out to me "Well, I can do it but I don't think you can." (those were his exact words!)

I am LIVID he would say that to me. I work out 5 times a week - HARD! I do at least 1 full hour cardio a week and the rest is typically interval training. I weight train too. He on the other hand NEVER works out. I am in pretty good shape and have an 8 week plan to train for the 5k. I'm 35 lbs to goal. If anyone can do the race, it's me!

Just venting I guess. I am really mad at him!

*Lindsey*

Keeping off 133 lbs since 2012!

Referral to Bariatric Registry: May 2011   /   Surgery (HRRH): June 25, 2012         

jewel-twin
on 2/8/13 1:09 am - Canada

Did you tell him to kiss your ass?  And then point him toward the couch as a good place to camp out until he quits being a Donkey?

Sorry he said that... Use that rage to totally beat his ass in that race.... LOL...revenge is often dirty business but I would not let him beat me and then I would gloat big time for weeks and bring it up every holiday!

 

Your welcome for the great advice.

Family Dr. 06/05/2012    Referral Received 06/28/2012 Orientation 08/01/2012   NP 08/27/2012
SW 08/28/2012              Nut Class 08/27/2012
NUT 10/01/2012              PS 10/01/2012
Surgeon Dr. Cyriac 12/07/2012  **SURGERY  JAN 30, 2013**

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NorthernStar
on 2/8/13 1:32 am - London, Canada
RNY on 06/25/12

That made me laugh... you're exactly right though

*Lindsey*

Keeping off 133 lbs since 2012!

Referral to Bariatric Registry: May 2011   /   Surgery (HRRH): June 25, 2012         

RidingFan
on 2/8/13 1:10 am - Ajax, Canada
RNY on 04/29/13

Best revenge?  Prove him wrong and beat him to the finish line!  You can do it!

Referred HRRH Apr.  2012, Info. Session: Sept 12/12, Surgeon Consult: Dr L Smith Sept 19/12,  RD/SW/RN/ Nov 19/12.  Surgery Date:  April 29, 2013

       

Paddycke51
on 2/8/13 1:16 am - Mississauga, Canada
Well, it sounds like you are ready to do that 5k, I wouldn't let him stop from this goal. There is probably some else u can buddy up with, so show him you can do it yourself. Maybe he is jealous that you are in better shape them him and he does want u to show him up. Don't let him deflat u. You've worked to hard Best of luck Don't say it....do it
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NorthernStar
on 2/8/13 1:33 am - London, Canada
RNY on 06/25/12

I'm still going to run it, I thought it was something we could do together but maybe he's not really interested after all.

*Lindsey*

Keeping off 133 lbs since 2012!

Referral to Bariatric Registry: May 2011   /   Surgery (HRRH): June 25, 2012         

Lynette1962
on 2/8/13 1:39 am - Whitby, Canada

Sorry he was an ass........I would also be livid !!!!!!!!!! blush

Sounds like you are working hard ....35 pounds to goal and working out 5 x weekly - congrat's on your success to date - you go girl !!!!!!!! 

I have reached my goal weight ..... and LOVE my RNY !!!!!!!!!

            

    
Julia P.
on 2/8/13 1:45 am - Canada
RNY on 10/16/12

That's total BS - you can do it, no problem! I started the Couch to 5K training recently, and all I did prior was brisk walking and stationary bike riding for 45 mins each day.  I also am much further away from goal than you.  You can totally do this!

Do you have a nearby indoor track that you could hit to start training?  We have one here in Milton and it's great!  I will start running outdoors when it gets nicer, but in the meantime it's great to have an indoor alternative.

Good luck to you!

Referral - December 2011 * Orientation TWH - March 13th, 2012 * Nurse Practitioner - April 17th, 2012 * Nutrition Class - April 17th, 2012 * Social Worker - April 24th, 2012 * Dietician - May 1st, 2012 * Psych - May 1st, 2012 * Surgeon - August 17th, 2012 * PATTS - Sept. 12th, 2012 * SURGERY TEGH, Dr. Cyriac - October 16th, 2012

Starting Weight - 320 lbs   *   Current Weight - 178 lbs  *  Goal Weight - 165 lbs 

                           

 

NorthernStar
on 2/8/13 2:03 am - London, Canada
RNY on 06/25/12

I don't know of an indoor track I could run at but I'm sure there are some here. My plan for now is to keep working out at home and head outside when the weather is better. I'm going to follow the Couch to 5k training plan too.

*Lindsey*

Keeping off 133 lbs since 2012!

Referral to Bariatric Registry: May 2011   /   Surgery (HRRH): June 25, 2012         

Julia P.
on 2/8/13 4:32 am - Canada
RNY on 10/16/12

Sounds like a plan to me!  You don't need your husband - you can rock this on your own!!

Referral - December 2011 * Orientation TWH - March 13th, 2012 * Nurse Practitioner - April 17th, 2012 * Nutrition Class - April 17th, 2012 * Social Worker - April 24th, 2012 * Dietician - May 1st, 2012 * Psych - May 1st, 2012 * Surgeon - August 17th, 2012 * PATTS - Sept. 12th, 2012 * SURGERY TEGH, Dr. Cyriac - October 16th, 2012

Starting Weight - 320 lbs   *   Current Weight - 178 lbs  *  Goal Weight - 165 lbs 

                           

 

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