Question about revealing dogears
Not sure how many of you have ended up with dogears from your tummy tucks, but I did and have been psycologialy challenged with them. I know my friend Beth can relate to what I am saying.
My question is: how do you explain and get over dogears to a new friend (male). How do you get over having the head to toe picture taken? How do you look nice for a person if you have to wear clothes bigger than you should so you can do your pants up around the dogears? and your legs and butt area are 5 times too big?
I know your going to say that it shouldn't matter what you look like on the outside it is what is in the insdie, ok, we are past that part, now it's me that is dealing with the $%#$%#$ dogears. No, I can't afford to have them repaired, I have had consults at every OH convention I have been too, the price ranges from $15,000 to $35,000 and that's just the surgeon....
So tell me bothers and sisters, how do I get past this issue with me?
My question is: how do you explain and get over dogears to a new friend (male). How do you get over having the head to toe picture taken? How do you look nice for a person if you have to wear clothes bigger than you should so you can do your pants up around the dogears? and your legs and butt area are 5 times too big?
I know your going to say that it shouldn't matter what you look like on the outside it is what is in the insdie, ok, we are past that part, now it's me that is dealing with the $%#$%#$ dogears. No, I can't afford to have them repaired, I have had consults at every OH convention I have been too, the price ranges from $15,000 to $35,000 and that's just the surgeon....
So tell me bothers and sisters, how do I get past this issue with me?
Women are angels.
...and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick.
We are flexible.
Darlene
...and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick.
We are flexible.
Darlene
Hey sweetie,you shared your feelings about this with me awhile ago.Here's what I think. I still have the floppy belly. I also have wrinkled legs down to my ankles do to a lot of weight loss.
First of all,at our age,we are not likely to have George Clooney trying to get closer to us. So,this gentleman friend,how perfect is he? What is he looking for,if it is Anglena,he had best go to a website and spend the evening there.
Intimacy has always been an issue with me,I have never shown my full body to anyone,yet I have had some great "moments". Sex lasts 15 minutes if you're lucky. If a man needs complete access to your body,then he best keep walking!!
I do think how you feel,your comfort level goes,means everything. Is there a part of your body you are proud of?? If not,how sexy can a cute corset,panty hose and such be?? I love 'em...
Who is in control in the bedroom?? If it is him,take the control,after all honey,YOU are the feast...
Men love to be teased and sexually tackled..
A little 15.00 pleated short skirt can be part of your costume,making you more comfy with yourself.while at the same time,holding in the dog ears.
In essence, he touches you where you ALLOW him to.
Take a clue from the gay brothers and sisters,role play, dress-up and such. Fantasy is fun!! You do NOT have to take your clothing off to have great sex,heck for that matter,not even your panties!
Honey, you can have fun,without compromising yourself.Without even removing your hose...grin!
First of all,at our age,we are not likely to have George Clooney trying to get closer to us. So,this gentleman friend,how perfect is he? What is he looking for,if it is Anglena,he had best go to a website and spend the evening there.
Intimacy has always been an issue with me,I have never shown my full body to anyone,yet I have had some great "moments". Sex lasts 15 minutes if you're lucky. If a man needs complete access to your body,then he best keep walking!!
I do think how you feel,your comfort level goes,means everything. Is there a part of your body you are proud of?? If not,how sexy can a cute corset,panty hose and such be?? I love 'em...
Who is in control in the bedroom?? If it is him,take the control,after all honey,YOU are the feast...
Men love to be teased and sexually tackled..
A little 15.00 pleated short skirt can be part of your costume,making you more comfy with yourself.while at the same time,holding in the dog ears.
In essence, he touches you where you ALLOW him to.
Take a clue from the gay brothers and sisters,role play, dress-up and such. Fantasy is fun!! You do NOT have to take your clothing off to have great sex,heck for that matter,not even your panties!
Honey, you can have fun,without compromising yourself.Without even removing your hose...grin!
WHAT WE FEAR,WE CREATE.
Hi Darlene
Your surgeon should have fixed the dogears and no cost or min to you ...Why did he not? I had some from the thigh surgery that they fixed in office procedure ...
I know how you feel as I hated mine too and I felt like this " I PAID A PRETTY PENNY for my surgery so he should do it right ,,,RIght means no dogears or excess etc .
Did you have it done a long time ago and can you go back to the surgeon who did it ?
Shirley
Your surgeon should have fixed the dogears and no cost or min to you ...Why did he not? I had some from the thigh surgery that they fixed in office procedure ...
I know how you feel as I hated mine too and I felt like this " I PAID A PRETTY PENNY for my surgery so he should do it right ,,,RIght means no dogears or excess etc .
Did you have it done a long time ago and can you go back to the surgeon who did it ?
Shirley
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