i'm going to my corner
i obvioulsy do not know how to behave with other children so i am banishing myself back to lurkdom--heck i think i'll just stay away a bit--those about whom i care know how to reach me.....
my reply on darlene's post about the forever box was way out of line and she called me out on it-albeit privately cuz ya know she has so much more class than i do---as evidenced by my post now!
and what she said in the post about the pancake mix--the story in her email is soo different!!!
it's really too bad that she continues to play her head games with all of us/you-she can be such a great gal --when she wants to be--
i know that the forever box started out to be a nice thing--she just cannot let us be grownups.....
and you all have no clue how many other things ---(disruptions/ disagreements) ---she has instigated behind the scenes in the last few years...
i have said too much- i will NOT hit delete--i just simply do not need her crap anymore....John Mayer (or however you spell it) is right in his song "say what you mean to say"
i apologize to the rest of you if i have let you think that i was a nice person-obvioulsy i am not......i used to think i was.....i must have been delusional.
hugs and prayers cuz i do love so many of you...........
my reply on darlene's post about the forever box was way out of line and she called me out on it-albeit privately cuz ya know she has so much more class than i do---as evidenced by my post now!
and what she said in the post about the pancake mix--the story in her email is soo different!!!
it's really too bad that she continues to play her head games with all of us/you-she can be such a great gal --when she wants to be--
i know that the forever box started out to be a nice thing--she just cannot let us be grownups.....
and you all have no clue how many other things ---(disruptions/ disagreements) ---she has instigated behind the scenes in the last few years...
i have said too much- i will NOT hit delete--i just simply do not need her crap anymore....John Mayer (or however you spell it) is right in his song "say what you mean to say"
i apologize to the rest of you if i have let you think that i was a nice person-obvioulsy i am not......i used to think i was.....i must have been delusional.
hugs and prayers cuz i do love so many of you...........
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
Margo:
I don't know what was said and I don't care. I already contacted you personally. I am proud to consider you as a friend. Do not lurk, do not go away. Keep saying what you want to say.
You are a nice person ... I know this for a fact. For there was a day this week when I was feeling kinda down and there was this nice Valentine's Day card from you, out of the blue, unsolicited. How nice was that! I didn't send one to you. It picked me up in so many ways.
Thank you for being who you are. Don't go away at all. We need you here.
I don't know what was said and I don't care. I already contacted you personally. I am proud to consider you as a friend. Do not lurk, do not go away. Keep saying what you want to say.
You are a nice person ... I know this for a fact. For there was a day this week when I was feeling kinda down and there was this nice Valentine's Day card from you, out of the blue, unsolicited. How nice was that! I didn't send one to you. It picked me up in so many ways.
Thank you for being who you are. Don't go away at all. We need you here.
im sure you are a very nice person, but if you need a time out in your corner i can understand that part.
so, im not such a nice person either, some days i just dont post here, cause even after six months, i feel like a stranger here some days.
getting too close to online friends, does not always work, just as in real life. i sometimes feel that im looking in here but not really part of the group
i dont understand some of the posts, why people need to post some of the things they do.
i dont understand people who play head games as you put it so well
im just me, i try to say whats on my mind, but i dont want to hurt feelings, so sometimes i say nothing
i think people should post some of the things they do via private mail and not on the public forum
ok im done for now
hope you feel better soon
jacki
so, im not such a nice person either, some days i just dont post here, cause even after six months, i feel like a stranger here some days.
getting too close to online friends, does not always work, just as in real life. i sometimes feel that im looking in here but not really part of the group
i dont understand some of the posts, why people need to post some of the things they do.
i dont understand people who play head games as you put it so well
im just me, i try to say whats on my mind, but i dont want to hurt feelings, so sometimes i say nothing
i think people should post some of the things they do via private mail and not on the public forum
ok im done for now
hope you feel better soon
jacki
Jacki,
I've been around here for well over 2 years and I sometimes feel the same way you do. Lately, I've censored so much of what I want to say for fear of being blasted, that it's gotten to where when I do post it's very generic. I once said something that got an immediate passive agressive sort of response and I immediately deleted the post. I felt like I had been slapped on the knuckles for being bad.
Margo and some of the longer term folks here have been an anchor for me in some very tough times, and I'm sure she would be there if I sought her out. It's too bad that the little pettiness and poking goes on at all. Sometimes I think we should change the name of the board to the "under 10" forum.
I'm going to bed now. I'm afraid of what I might see when I get up.
I've been around here for well over 2 years and I sometimes feel the same way you do. Lately, I've censored so much of what I want to say for fear of being blasted, that it's gotten to where when I do post it's very generic. I once said something that got an immediate passive agressive sort of response and I immediately deleted the post. I felt like I had been slapped on the knuckles for being bad.
Margo and some of the longer term folks here have been an anchor for me in some very tough times, and I'm sure she would be there if I sought her out. It's too bad that the little pettiness and poking goes on at all. Sometimes I think we should change the name of the board to the "under 10" forum.
I'm going to bed now. I'm afraid of what I might see when I get up.
Susan
Jacki, I totally understand what you are saying. I find myself even after all this time lurking at times. It is easier that way sometimes.
I hope that you continue to post. You send such a peace to all of us. You just seem to roll with the flow and the accident you had is one of the ways that you do. Here you are in a chair and dependent on others for some of the things that we take for granted. You might not like it but you know that there is a means to end to it. You realize that things happen to us in life and they are totally out of our control.
So with this being said........please continue to post or I will miss you greatly.
I hope that you continue to post. You send such a peace to all of us. You just seem to roll with the flow and the accident you had is one of the ways that you do. Here you are in a chair and dependent on others for some of the things that we take for granted. You might not like it but you know that there is a means to end to it. You realize that things happen to us in life and they are totally out of our control.
So with this being said........please continue to post or I will miss you greatly.
It's not what you gather, but what you scatter
that tells what kind of life you have lived.
Margo, I am asking this very selfishly since it is just for me. I hope that you won't back out and leave us. I enjoy hearing from you and reading what you have to say. You are a peace loving and wonderful woman and I look up to you greatly. You go through a lot of things in your life and you are still here and fighting. I admire that more than you will know. I am going through a lot of crap in my life right now and I stop often and think of you.
People just have to let things go sometimes. But at times they have a hard time because they need the power of it or just they need to feel like they are in control of some part of their life. What ever it is it just is. It is their problem and they are the ones that must repair it.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion. No on should be brought before the judge so to speak just because their opinion differs from the others. This mystery box just isn't worth the hassle to me either. I loved getting it and yes there was some stuff in it that wasn't that great but for the most part there wasn't a problem with it. I didn't think. But everyones idea of "better" stuff is different. We are all adults and need to be treated as such. We do not need babysitters. I resent that anyone would think that I needed one. Yes, it took me a while to get it in the mail but such is life. Things happen and we all need to go with the flow of it. Why fight something that you have no control over. I didn't forget the box but couldn't get it to the post office for one thing. Oh well, no one sustained life or death problems from it. It is just what it is. That is what everyone needs to realize. Even the control freaks who ever they might be.
I love you and thanks for the card the other day. It came at the time that I needed it just like the socks from Paulette. I so love you and need you on here to listen to me.
People just have to let things go sometimes. But at times they have a hard time because they need the power of it or just they need to feel like they are in control of some part of their life. What ever it is it just is. It is their problem and they are the ones that must repair it.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion. No on should be brought before the judge so to speak just because their opinion differs from the others. This mystery box just isn't worth the hassle to me either. I loved getting it and yes there was some stuff in it that wasn't that great but for the most part there wasn't a problem with it. I didn't think. But everyones idea of "better" stuff is different. We are all adults and need to be treated as such. We do not need babysitters. I resent that anyone would think that I needed one. Yes, it took me a while to get it in the mail but such is life. Things happen and we all need to go with the flow of it. Why fight something that you have no control over. I didn't forget the box but couldn't get it to the post office for one thing. Oh well, no one sustained life or death problems from it. It is just what it is. That is what everyone needs to realize. Even the control freaks who ever they might be.
I love you and thanks for the card the other day. It came at the time that I needed it just like the socks from Paulette. I so love you and need you on here to listen to me.
It's not what you gather, but what you scatter
that tells what kind of life you have lived.
(deactivated member)
on 2/14/09 8:13 am
on 2/14/09 8:13 am
Hi Margo, because I firmly believe the only things in life that are "forever" are death and taxes, and perhaps the "forever stamp", I have no clue what you are talking about, but please don't leave. There is nothing that can't be fixed, and nothing on the net that should really, truly affect our lives to the extent we feel the need to leave a supportive environment. Please stay..so I can learn move about this "forever box". :)
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