Where are you Barbara?

What the heck?  He must be out of his mind.  Did you go on another trip with him?  I was wondering where you were. Just saw you back here again a couple of days ago.  I'm sorry it didn't work out but it takes a while to really get to know what some people are made of and some people turn out to be made of dog doo doo.

Sorry 'bout the "Prince" Susan.  He evidently was NOT the one for you but there is someone out there just specially waiting for the two of you to meet.  But dang, the waiting and not knowing is so hard.  Hang in there friend....the right one will come along when you are least expecting it. He was probably too danged short anyhow. LOL 
BTW..Thanks for replying to my PM... I love your humor.

Huggerooskies to You,

Sandy

Well Susan, it may be the best thing that ever happened to you, although I doubt it feels that way right now.  Plenty of frogs around not alotta princes, but yours is out there.  I believe your prince is out there.  When he shows up you will know!!!  Hugs, Mary

Susan, if you want my opinion....and even if you don't you are getting it.....he has to be an idiot! And what the heck do you want an idiot for? He has to  be lacking in the brains department for letting a prize like you slip right through his mealy, sweaty little hands.

Prince Charming is out there and when you least expect it he is going to arrive on his white horse. I know that I agreed to date Bill as only friends and for dinner and movies and such. We met and were married 1 week later. When you least expect it, girlfriend......when you least expect it!

Thanks girls. 

I am baffled by the whole deal.     It may be a personal issue on his part or it may be something else (like me) ... I guess I will never know.  That is what is so confusing ... NOT KNOWING WHY.   I even asked him and again he lead me on and then didn't call.   I do feel rather strung along, but I guess I should have been smart enough to pick up on it over time.   DUH!  I was even advised by some people to move on and forget him.  I thought maybe it was just his personality and that he was working 12 - 14 hour days and things would be different when he got back, but I guess that was not the case.  haha.  It is a real shame since we got along so well and he would have had a very devoted, loving companion.  Oh well.  Life goes on.   I removed him from my cell phone and didn't keep his number.  I wish him well.  I hope he finds what he is looking for.  I hope I find what I am looking for too!  haha.  Maybe the fact that I am looking is the problem?   I am taking a break from looking.  It is just too depressing.  I need to be happy.    I have accomplished so much in the past year and I need to celebrate it!!!    At least he got me motivated!  So I don't have any hard feelings ... I am just baffled by it all.

Barbara -  I have been cleaning, painting & decorating the past couple months and just not spending much time online.  Since I have some health issues it takes me a lot longer to do things than a normal person.    Also things had been let go for so long due to being ill and it has been a real challenge.   My girlfriend/neighbor (more like my surrogate daughter) and I have plans to do some doll it up and go out nights and check out some wine tastings, etc.  She is only 28 and very attractive, and she is having the same problems meeting men.  So we may as well go out and have some fun together.

(((((((((( hugs to you all )))))))))))