new man in town.

Julia. Aides is one of the first things that I thought of when my son came out.  But his partner is devoted tohim as he is to his partner.  I hope they are sensible.  My wife's cancer was not caught early and they did all they could but it just wasnot enough.  I really miss her.

hi ben!!! WELCOME!!!! like brenda and margo have said this is a great board...best that OH has if i must say so myself!!!! so pull up a chair grab a cup of what ever you drink and tell us about yourself....again...WELCOME!!!

thanks.  I have pretty much said it all in the other posts.  I'm really here to find a friend.  I met her at the nut office and she referred me here.  She's a little thing and teaches at one of the colleges around here.  I wanted to tell her thanks for the advice.  I wish I could remember her name.  She's trying to get cleared for some kind of surgery.  Do any of you know who I'm talking about.

Does she live in Arkansas?

Yes.  She lives up around Fayetteville.  She teaches up there.  I wish I had been brave enough to get her phone number.  I cannot remember her name to save my life.  She has really short hair and is about my age.  She's not real short but petite looking.  I'd say she don't weigh 120 pounds soaking wet.  Damn I wish I had got her name.  We only talked for a few minutes.  I guess I wa****ting on her and she told me to come here not for women but for information.  If you can help me find her I'd appreciate it. 

Ben, I am right there with you with the password problems. I do the same thing. I can't remember **** anymore thanks to the medicine for the neuropathy.

I use the nickname that my Dad had for me. That is the way that I remember my password. In fact the nickname and the year that I was born is my password. Use a word or group of words that is easy for you and means something. My first thought would be a nickname that your wife had for you. Something easy to remember for you.

Just a thought. And again......welcome to OFF.

Hi Ben, Welcome to OFF, a place to EXHALE.  It has been the place I've longed for--full of acceptance, support and encouragement.  I think you'll like it here.  BTW, if you want OH to send you your forgotten password, they will.  It's easy, just hit the log on at the main page and type in your email address that you used when you first created your page and hit the "forgot my password" and they will email it to you.  You can change it or keep it but my advice is to write it down and paste it to your monitor or somewhere convienent.  (You know what people our age don't have babies?  We'd put them down and forget where we put them!) 
Okay, enough already, Big OFF Hug and welcome mat extended!
Marie (Nannyre)

I tried the thing where I have them send me the password but I changed my email a while back so it was just easier to make a new account.  I'm sure one of my kids can fix my profile page. 

Welcome Ben

Thanks. I hope to hang out for a while and get use to everybody.