Matters of the heart.

Hubby and I are heading back home after a wonderful visit with our Kansas grandson.  Our granddaughter was with her other grandparents so we visited with the baby.  Of course, we brought my daughters babies along and that is a treat.  Baby Girl, which is what we call the one year old, loves her uncle and aunt.  Every  single time they get ready to go out side, she rushes to them to be taken.  And Mathew has always loved his uncle.  So, I spent time in the house with Baby Kobe and my son and his wife took the bigger babies out running around.  But, needless to say, I am ready to go home and have some much needed alone time. 

Hubby came along this time and it was nice to have the help.  He is feeling a little insecure these days.  Most of our married life, he has been the small one and I have been the large one and the one needing help.  Now, with his disease and the steroids that he is on, he has gained up to 250 pounds and he is hating it.  Plus, he says he thinks that I'm going to find a better model.  HA!  I remind him of how big a ***** I am and how I am selfish and not good at playing in the sandbox and for him to relax that he has my heart and that makes him feel a little better. 

With his sickness, he is not always in the best of moods.  The steroids make him so fussy and the extra weight and the pain make him where he just wants to sit and gripe. LOL.  The truth is, even on his worse days, he is a good man and I'm lucky to have him.  I'm in this for the long haul and if this disease takes him, well, I will just die.  He is my rock.  The good news, they are going to give him time to get over the inflammation and hopefully they can remove some of the damaged intestines.  We are hoping he will feel better then. 

Our anniversary is this month and I am going to try and be the one to remember.  He usually remembers and does the nice dinner out and the romantic wine and candles later and a really nice piece of jewlery.  Well, this year, it will be me doing that for him. 

 

You're in Kansas?  I wondered where you were.  Did you get the message that I sent? 

I sometimes tell my Hubby that I've invested far too much time and energy on training him to give him up for someone else. This usually gets a laugh.
I do hope things soon get better for your husband. Being sick is the pits.
Sounds like you two are lucky to have each other!

Ditto what Ratbike wrote!  I often remind my "prince" that I almost have him housebroken!  Do that annniversary thingy up big!  Sending a hug your way!

I am going to make a lovely dinner, and I'm getting him a new laptop.  He has been wanting one for a while and so I'll put the check for it in his card. LOL.  While he handles are money, he never buys anything big without telling me first.  Well, I am a money horder.  When I buy groceries, I always use the debit card and take forty or fifty bucks extra and put in my purse.  The other day, I checked and had a almost two thousand bucks.  So, I will put it back in the bank before our anniversary and when he gets the check and says we don't have that kind of money, I'll say yea, I put the stolen money back. HEHE.  A girl has to do what a girl has to do. LOL

He's a good man.  I hate that he is sick and wish I could take his place.  He has always been the healthy one so for him to be so sick makes him crazy.  Hopefully, he will improve with his new medicines and the new doctor that specializes in his condition is aggressive in the treatment too.