thanks for your prayers

marylyn
on 7/18/09 12:02 pm

thanks for all your prayers.i bury my huband thur.its been so hard to stay in the house.i try to keep busy.but its hard to do.some tell me gets its better each day.but i think my heart has been out of me.and my life taking away.i have been sleeping and satying in bed.if the pastor had not come by i would still be there.i love him so much and will miss him after 37 years.has anyone been through the same thing.how did you get by.

marylyn

susandoeshair
on 7/18/09 12:17 pm - Alexander, AR

RNY on 09/14/06

Oh Marilyn, I'm so very sorry for your loss. How quickly this happened, you must not have even had time to catch your breath.

Please take care of yourself and know you have your friends here at OFF

Susan

marylyn
on 7/25/09 1:16 pm

sorry it took so long to get back.but things here is still up and down.i get all kinds of call everyday from something my huband has in bills or ins.its so crazy sometimes i can not think.but i know this is where i can come and vent if i need to and have friends here to.

marylyn

RoseyNo
on 7/18/09 12:19 pm

RNY on 08/19/09

Marylyn,

Please accept my deepest sympathy. May you find strength during this difficult time with the love of friends and family to comfort you.

Debbie

marylyn
on 7/25/09 1:19 pm

thanks.sorry its took so long to get back.i have family i can lean on but for his side they decide not to have any thing else to do with me.thats the way i took it after they left the cemetary that day.but i still have this to come back toif i need to vent and someone to listen to me.

marylyn

(deactivated member)
on 7/18/09 12:30 pm - Somewhere IN, TX

RNY on 11/23/04

Marylyn,

I'm very sorry for your loss. It does get better. Honestly. Not today. Not even tomorrow, but eventually.

I was widowed in February, 1995. Life does go on. You meet wonderful people and you still get up and brush your teeth.

Don't take away the grieving... it's a healing time... use it wisely...at some point you'll find yourself smiling again...

Take advantage of all those people that wrote in the guest book. I called every single one of them and thanked them for coming... and then told them I'd be available for dinner or a movie...or just a good evening of watching tv with them and not to forget me. Well, some did....but a whole lot didn't.

Find grief counseling. It's a winner through and through. There will be others you can commiserate with that understand.

If you can find a local chapter of WPS.. Widow Persons Service. I met them on a cruise.... and went a few times.

I wish you well. Another chapter in your life has started. It's not a bad chapter, just a another chapter...and not the final chapter.

Janet

marylyn
on 7/25/09 1:24 pm

thanks janet.i need to do what you say.sorry it took so long to get back and read.i wi**** would get better.sometimes i cry at night.i know that want bring him back.i will look up wps and see if there is one here.

marylyn