OT: Dillinger Update

He is still with me, the Vet said it's not time yet, she gave me a two week supply, with 4 refills, of pain meds to keep him comfortable, told me the signs to watch for and said he's had a good life with a good Mom and that all things considered he is doing great, she reminded me that he is almost 3 months past what time he was given and that I am doing the right things. 

Thanks for the prayers said and moral support, as you can imagine I feel a slight sense of relief now, even though I know he is on borrowed time, it's knowing that I am not doing anything wrong either that makes me feel better.

Hugs, Laureen

Oh Laureen - what a wonderful gift of time you've been given and how wonderfully you've treated your boy, Dillinger.  I have seen so many abused dogs that when I read about someone (you!!) being responsible for and loving her pet, it just makes me cry.  Well done.  Hugs to you and Dillinger.     Margaret

Laureen,

That is surely good news! I am sorry he is not doing so well in the big picture, and I will be thinking of both of you and sending prayers your way...
When we got Bridget I only hesitated because I knew we would love her soooo much and someday have to say goodbye. That is the hard part with our furry family members.

And on a cheerier note....you look absofantabulou****ely gorgeous!

Take Care,
Cheryl

He is hanging in there because he doesn't want to leave you. Our furbabies really don't want to go, even when they don't feel well. But he'll let  you know. They can't talk, but they do communicate in so many ways (you know it and I know it ... all pet lovers do). You keep doing all you are doing for him; he appreciates everything, and so do I (just because I know how hard it is to let a furbaby go, and I know how hard it will be on you when the time comes).

We're all with you on this. Scooter and Nettie say Meow and send head bumps (I hope Dillinger likes cats!)

Laureen,
I'm so glad Dillinger is still with you.  He's sticking around so you can make peace with him and he knows you need him.  It's really tough, but we know they don't live long enough when we get them, but we want to love and want to be loved, so we go through the heartbreaks of losing them when it's time.
I hope you get several more months with him, and him with you.
(((((Hugs to you both)))))
Jan

(((((  Laurenn )))))   Huggs....   

The hardest thing I ever did was put my dog down.  She was a Siberian Husky.  Their life expectancy is about 8-9 years;  she was 14 years.  She was blind and was having seizures at the end.  I couldn't bear watching her anymore.

You are fortunate to have Dillinger for so long.  I know he will let you know when it is time.

Millie

Such an emotional thing... so sad indeed. You're a wonderful Mom ... and Dillinger is a lucky pup for having  you.

I am sure you have seen this before... but I want so badly to believe in this I am posting it again.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Laureen-my heart goes out to you too.  It is hard to lose a pet.

Marc-your posting is beautiful.  I am crying as I am reading this because my 17 year old cat (combo Himilayan and Persian) Candy is going downhill.  She has been slowing down becaue of her age but she has been with us since she was 1-1/2 years old and we adopted her from the shelter after losing our other cat.  We had a 4 year old cat at the time who we had to have the vet assist us 6 years ago. 

I know we probably will have to make a decision this week if not sooner.  She has been a loyal little friend for years, gotten me through 3 surgeries and has been a loyal little cat.  She even let our daughter dress her in doll clothes in her younger years. 

It is comforting to read these--it is a hard decision but we don't want them to suffer because we love them.

Hugs and prayers

Sylvia

Laureen,
My heart goes out to you.  I know how hard it was for me to put my Rocky to sleep (4 yrs ago).  I still get very weepy thinking about it but I believe I did the right thing.

Enjoy the time you have together.

My thoughts are with you.
Ruth

No one could have been a better mommy. He stayed longer to be with you. He loves you,and his energy and love will forever be a part of you.