I AM HOME AGAIN....

thanks jan!!! garys half sister is a real piece of work let me tell you....i won't get into it but trust me she will get hers in the end.

garys kids were always nice to me even at the end...we had our moments but it all was good.

 

It is so healthy, Judy, to be able to have your grief and the closure that came of it.  You were brave and smart to go there and should feel good about that decision and follow through.

THANKYOU mary!!! you are right...i needed that closure to end it all for me. i am glad i took the trip back for the service and i do feel good about it all. its HIS family that should be ashamed of themselves the way that they acted toward me but oh well...what goes around comes around.

Glad you were able to go back. Too many people who are divorced can't let go of the bitterness (my brother, for one), so I understand that. You could at least remember you had good times and there was love once.

THANKYOU eileen!!! if it wasn't for ricks money for cedar point he saved i wouldn't have been able to go back to michigan...i am glad i went even tho it was a sad occasion. but it DID give me closure!! it made me realize there WERE good times even tho i had forgotten most of them over the last several years. gary is at peace now and no longer suffering.

Judy,
Even thugh I have a migraine headache from hell and am ging thru some cancer treatment I am thinking of you. My prayers worked for you and I want you to know you are in my heart and Gary is in a better place.
Hoping to see you again sometime.
Carla

(((carla))) THANKYOU!!! your prayers helped so much!!! yes gary is in a better place now and i am sure he is having a blast with all his drinking buddies and hunting buddies!!!

sorry you are having the headache from hell!!! did i miss something?? is your cancer back??? prayers for you my sister!!!! hope you feel better soon!!!

Judy,

I am glad that you made your peace with Gary at the gravesite and that things went as well as they did with his family.  You post sounds like you have peace knowing you did what you needed to and you already know that Gary is at peace, so enjoy living and your new life!

Hugs, Laureen

THANKYOU laureen!!! i am glad i went and also that i made my peace...he wasn't himself for the last several months we were together but its over and he IS at peace now. as well as myself.