OT: Changing Perspectives

Laureen S.
on 9/25/09 12:45 am - Maple Shade, NJ
Thought I would share this with you. . .

I don't think you're suddenly going to begin to look at the world with new eyes when you're eighty if you haven't been doing it when you're thirty.
--Janice Clark


We are creatures of habit as evidenced by our getting stuck in old viewpoints long after they have quit serving us. However, that fact doesn't restrict us for all time. Anytime we want to cultivate a new idea, an alternative approach to a situation, we are free to do so. Janice may be right regarding some people she has known, but we are capable of freshening our perspective at any age.

We have all known some elderly men and women who have the spirit and enthusiasm of the very young. Unfortunately, we have also known the reverse. How sad to observe the forty or fifty year old person who has quit living. Their whining belies their age. Who will we be? The choice is always available to us. And we can remake it as often as we wish.

What a relief to know that if we're old and resentful today, we still have the opportunity to be young and full of laughter tomorrow. We maybe can't do everything we used to do, but this decision is still in our power.

I will open my eyes to whatever I choose to see today. Yesterday's experiences have only the power I give them.


My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . .  It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . .  Laureen

"Success is a journey, not a destination."  Ben Sweetland

Margo M.
on 9/25/09 1:40 am - Elyria, OH
powerful...and timely!
hugs!!!

I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White

 

(deactivated member)
on 9/25/09 1:57 am - San Juan Capistrano, CA
RNY on 07/11/07 with
Thanks for sharing this - it is oh so true!   It's easy to recogize the patterns in others, and it's another thing to look at yourself and take control of your own viewpoint!!!! Thank You!
dnitti
on 9/25/09 3:44 am - Vadnais Heights, MN

Wow how true this is. It's hard to step back and look at yourself with eyes wide open. We may not like what we see, but we do have the power to change what we don't like.

Thanks for sharing,

Your loving sister - Dorothy

Connie D.
on 9/25/09 5:45 am
Absolutely true...thanks for sharing!!

Hugs....connie d
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