Talked to Brenda

... she says hi, she's still "sucking air" as she said. She is spending so much time with Kayden now because Kayden's mother left him and his father. So Brenda is becoming more and more the caretaker during the day. It's sad ... don't know what will happen there. Don't know if she has postpartum or just can't handle being a mother.

So she hasn't had time to get her computer up and running, but she misses everyone and thinks about all of you.

Eileen,

Thanks for keeping us posted.  What heartbreaking news to hear that Kayden's mom left him and his dad.  The most precious things in life is having a child....my children mean the world to me.  Extra prayers going up for Brenda and her family.

Debbie

Wow....didn't see THAT coming. Poor Kayden! What a mess.

Let her know we're all thinking of her when you talk to her again.

Eileen...thanks for sharing this information.

My heart goes out to them all...such a sad situation. I am glad Brenda is there for little Kayden.

I will keep them in my special prayer tonight.

Hugs....connie d

Thanks Eileen for posting and letting us in on what has been happening with Brenda.  Very sad, but better she leaves than does any harm to that precious little baby.  Prayers going up for all involved.

Please give Brenda our heartfelt love when you speak with her again!

wow is right....
thx for the update!!!!!!
tho...i have to truly wonder if brenda wanted us to know ALL of this right now?????....

OMG  very sad.  I didn't see that coming either.  I feel sorry for everybody involved.  There has to be something going on with Kayden's mother for her to leave.  And I feel badly for Kayden's dad, Brenda and poor little Kayden.  He's got to be sensing that something's wrong.
I wish I had a magic wand to fix it all.  Since I don't LOL, I'll think good thoughts and say a few prayers.  All of this can be worked out eventually, but in the interim, it's a sad mess.
Margaret

Thanks for update.  So sad for Kayden and his dad.  Thoughts go out to Brenda, her son and grandson.  It must be a very difficult time for them.  Please send best wishes to Brenda if you talk to her again.

Thanks so much for the update.
This is so sad, it is wonderful that Brenda is there to help in this situation... she has such a big heart.
Sheri

Aloha Eileen.......It's 5:45 a.m. here and yours was the first post I opened this morning. What a sad sad situation with Brenda. I could FEEL that her time with Kayden could get stressful, and now she's going to be caretaker MUCH of the time. I worry about HER!

I'm hoping that Kayden's mother is just having a postpartum crisis, and will get help for herself so she can return and be a good mother. Postpartum depression can be devastating....but can also go away as rapidly as it started. Let's hope that is what happens.

Thanks for the update Eileen!

Aloha nui loa,

Maui Karen