Happy Thursday - How You All Doing Today!
Good Morning OFF Friends,
It's a beautiful, fall like day here in the mid-atlantic/northeast and I'm loving this weather, though it is a harbringer of what is to come. . . oh well, this is life now isn't it. . .
I'm at work, after work, walking Roxie girl and then meeting with my good friend Owen for Sushi and an AA meeting after. . .
Last night's support group meeting at the place I had my surgery was really good, on of the gals, celebrated her 1 year surgiversary and she has lost a whopping 155 lbs (or thereabouts) and she looks amazing, actually she is pretty amazing. . . then there were the handful of "oldtimers" there and a smattering of the newer folks, we had a very engaging discussion on topics such as recommitment and staying on track, as well as various WOW moments, self realizations and touching on the subject of transfer addicition, particularly, post-WLS alcoholism which has become a very real issue amongst my peers. I was recently considering the idea of stepping away from the support group leadership role because of the inner turmoil I have about my "successing" but when I shared openly my thoughts and reasons, I got such wonderful feedback that it caused me to take a step back and realize how much the people that come each month give to me and mostly what I get is the knowledge that I am never alone with the thoughts that run through my mind and that their journey's inspire me in ways that keep me from ever becoming what I once was and so while others will be taking a more active approach in the coming year (at least I hope so ;)), I will continue to be an active participant so long as either I can or they let me. . .anyway. . .
This is my busy time of year, youngest daughter's birthday, son's wedding anniversary, nephew's birthday, son's birthday, grandson # 2's birthday, then grandson #1's birthday, followed with my DIL's birthday, sprinkle in there the fact that my oldest and dearest friend is having a farewell party on Friday night, as she has moved to Florida and is back to close her house in readiness for sale. . . it's just a whirlwind and I am saddened as yet another old friend moves away, but I now have more places to visit in Florida than I have time to visit and more and more I feel drawn there, but for the immediate future I am tied here, maybe in 5 or so years things will be different. I need more vacation time (lol).
Ok, long enough, got to work and earn my paycheck. . . for any facing serious life challenges, I send my best thoughts and wishes for you!
Hugs, Laureen
It's a beautiful, fall like day here in the mid-atlantic/northeast and I'm loving this weather, though it is a harbringer of what is to come. . . oh well, this is life now isn't it. . .
I'm at work, after work, walking Roxie girl and then meeting with my good friend Owen for Sushi and an AA meeting after. . .
Last night's support group meeting at the place I had my surgery was really good, on of the gals, celebrated her 1 year surgiversary and she has lost a whopping 155 lbs (or thereabouts) and she looks amazing, actually she is pretty amazing. . . then there were the handful of "oldtimers" there and a smattering of the newer folks, we had a very engaging discussion on topics such as recommitment and staying on track, as well as various WOW moments, self realizations and touching on the subject of transfer addicition, particularly, post-WLS alcoholism which has become a very real issue amongst my peers. I was recently considering the idea of stepping away from the support group leadership role because of the inner turmoil I have about my "successing" but when I shared openly my thoughts and reasons, I got such wonderful feedback that it caused me to take a step back and realize how much the people that come each month give to me and mostly what I get is the knowledge that I am never alone with the thoughts that run through my mind and that their journey's inspire me in ways that keep me from ever becoming what I once was and so while others will be taking a more active approach in the coming year (at least I hope so ;)), I will continue to be an active participant so long as either I can or they let me. . .anyway. . .
This is my busy time of year, youngest daughter's birthday, son's wedding anniversary, nephew's birthday, son's birthday, grandson # 2's birthday, then grandson #1's birthday, followed with my DIL's birthday, sprinkle in there the fact that my oldest and dearest friend is having a farewell party on Friday night, as she has moved to Florida and is back to close her house in readiness for sale. . . it's just a whirlwind and I am saddened as yet another old friend moves away, but I now have more places to visit in Florida than I have time to visit and more and more I feel drawn there, but for the immediate future I am tied here, maybe in 5 or so years things will be different. I need more vacation time (lol).
Ok, long enough, got to work and earn my paycheck. . . for any facing serious life challenges, I send my best thoughts and wishes for you!
Hugs, Laureen
My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . . It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . . Laureen
"Success is a journey, not a destination." Ben Sweetland
Good morning Laureen & all. The trees are changing here too. I love this time of year, but I know whats coming.
I will know in a few weeks if I have to back on chemo. Even if I do it shouldn't be too bad.
Today I make applesauce & plant my mums. I have had them a month. Brought in my grapefruit & orange trees yesterday. I started them from seed over 30 years ago. I keep them about 3 ft. tall.
I should also bring in my other plants. Laureen moving to Florida sounds like a dream to me. Most of my grands live around here though.
I hope you all have a wonderful day, & those that are hurting feel better soon! Nan
I will know in a few weeks if I have to back on chemo. Even if I do it shouldn't be too bad.
Today I make applesauce & plant my mums. I have had them a month. Brought in my grapefruit & orange trees yesterday. I started them from seed over 30 years ago. I keep them about 3 ft. tall.
I should also bring in my other plants. Laureen moving to Florida sounds like a dream to me. Most of my grands live around here though.
I hope you all have a wonderful day, & those that are hurting feel better soon! Nan
Nan,
Yes, I love this time of year, in spite of the fact, that winter is not far behind it, but truth is I don't hate any of the seasons, but some are easier to deal with and I think it is just the shorter days and sometimes being unable to socialize so easily which makes winter harder to take, but it's all good.
I hope you get good news and I know that no matter what you hear, you're quiet determination and the love and support of your family and friends will get you through it. So how much do 3 ft. tall trees produce? Curious, as I have an interest in planting some fruit trees, though I'd not considered citrus trees. . . As for your grands, yes, when most of your family lives all around you and are as close knit as it seems yours is, makes it hard to move any great distance. . . for me, my daughters, who I am close to, live in Florida, so making the move there would be nice, as well as knowing that I have a good number of friends within short driving distances from me. . . but it is a dream at this point and life will take me where I need to be in the time and manner it's meant to happen. . .
Enjoy your applesauce and planting time. . .
Hugs, Laureen
Yes, I love this time of year, in spite of the fact, that winter is not far behind it, but truth is I don't hate any of the seasons, but some are easier to deal with and I think it is just the shorter days and sometimes being unable to socialize so easily which makes winter harder to take, but it's all good.
I hope you get good news and I know that no matter what you hear, you're quiet determination and the love and support of your family and friends will get you through it. So how much do 3 ft. tall trees produce? Curious, as I have an interest in planting some fruit trees, though I'd not considered citrus trees. . . As for your grands, yes, when most of your family lives all around you and are as close knit as it seems yours is, makes it hard to move any great distance. . . for me, my daughters, who I am close to, live in Florida, so making the move there would be nice, as well as knowing that I have a good number of friends within short driving distances from me. . . but it is a dream at this point and life will take me where I need to be in the time and manner it's meant to happen. . .
Enjoy your applesauce and planting time. . .
Hugs, Laureen
My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . . It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . . Laureen
"Success is a journey, not a destination." Ben Sweetland
Good morning Laureen and everyone....
Laureen....you sure do have a whirlwind of things happening this time of year. It sounds like my springtime!! Hope you enjoy every moment!
I know I too need to rejoin my support group. I am just embarrassed because of the weight I gained. I know how much they can help. I need to just go do it!!
My sister was on the warpath last night. I came home and had some dinner. She as usual was on the phone....nonstop when she is home. Her group goes from friend to friend and gossips about the others. It goes on for hours every day and night! All pretty sad. Anyway, I went in and did a load of laundry that I need to pack today. She had things in the dryer. She is sitting in the living room talking to whomever, telling them that she had clothes in the dryer and hadn't planned on taking them out to fold last night. She went on and on. Then, still on the phone she comes to me and says the same thing to me. I said I will take care of it. She continues to rant that she doesn't know what to do with it and doesn't want it on her bed. I put it in my clothes basket, hers is full of junk. I then folded her pjs. She then yelled " I want to fold my own underwear. I just don't want to do it now. " I quietly put it in her bedroom . All this while still on the phone!! She always tells her friends all of my business, financial and everything. When I get back from Iowa I will find a place to go. It is always something with her!! I cried myself to sleep last night.
Enough of my crap. Wishing you all a really beautiful day!!
Prayers for all in need and some special prayers as well.
Love
and hugs 
......connie d
Some thing wierd going on with this site.....this post appeared 5 times!! I couldn't get it to post to Laureen's so I posted to Nan. We have gremlins again!!!!!
Laureen....you sure do have a whirlwind of things happening this time of year. It sounds like my springtime!! Hope you enjoy every moment!
I know I too need to rejoin my support group. I am just embarrassed because of the weight I gained. I know how much they can help. I need to just go do it!!
My sister was on the warpath last night. I came home and had some dinner. She as usual was on the phone....nonstop when she is home. Her group goes from friend to friend and gossips about the others. It goes on for hours every day and night! All pretty sad. Anyway, I went in and did a load of laundry that I need to pack today. She had things in the dryer. She is sitting in the living room talking to whomever, telling them that she had clothes in the dryer and hadn't planned on taking them out to fold last night. She went on and on. Then, still on the phone she comes to me and says the same thing to me. I said I will take care of it. She continues to rant that she doesn't know what to do with it and doesn't want it on her bed. I put it in my clothes basket, hers is full of junk. I then folded her pjs. She then yelled " I want to fold my own underwear. I just don't want to do it now. " I quietly put it in her bedroom . All this while still on the phone!! She always tells her friends all of my business, financial and everything. When I get back from Iowa I will find a place to go. It is always something with her!! I cried myself to sleep last night.
Enough of my crap. Wishing you all a really beautiful day!!
Prayers for all in need and some special prayers as well.
Love
and hugs ......connie dSome thing wierd going on with this site.....this post appeared 5 times!! I couldn't get it to post to Laureen's so I posted to Nan. We have gremlins again!!!!!
Connie,
I saw that you responded and I could read part in my email, but when I'd come here, it was blank. . . oh well, once in a while this acts up, but overall, considering all the things that go on this site, it's pretty reliable.
As for your sister, it's very hard when we have to live in someone else's environment, even if we love them, what's the saying, familiarity breeds contempt. . . what we can overlook for a short visit is hard to abide by in constant living cir****tances. . .trust me, I live with two people, none related by blood, and I'm grateful for the extra income, but if I had my choice, I'd much rather live alone. . .I truly hope that you can find your way to peaceful, happier times soon!!!
Sending loving thoughts your way! Laureen
I saw that you responded and I could read part in my email, but when I'd come here, it was blank. . . oh well, once in a while this acts up, but overall, considering all the things that go on this site, it's pretty reliable.
As for your sister, it's very hard when we have to live in someone else's environment, even if we love them, what's the saying, familiarity breeds contempt. . . what we can overlook for a short visit is hard to abide by in constant living cir****tances. . .trust me, I live with two people, none related by blood, and I'm grateful for the extra income, but if I had my choice, I'd much rather live alone. . .I truly hope that you can find your way to peaceful, happier times soon!!!
Sending loving thoughts your way! Laureen
My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . . It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . . Laureen
"Success is a journey, not a destination." Ben Sweetland
Connie:
I would never be able to live with any of my family members ... just staying with them for a few days drives me crazy. I've been living on my own for so long, I'm not used to living with someone else. And my sister ... no way I could live with her. She's such a crab.
Is there a friend you could live with? Or since you're on disability, could you get Section 8 housing? Some of those are pretty nice. Just some suggestions.
Hope it works out for you.
I would never be able to live with any of my family members ... just staying with them for a few days drives me crazy. I've been living on my own for so long, I'm not used to living with someone else. And my sister ... no way I could live with her. She's such a crab.
Is there a friend you could live with? Or since you're on disability, could you get Section 8 housing? Some of those are pretty nice. Just some suggestions.
Hope it works out for you.
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