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Connie:
I said I was glad you're back and posting and meant it. I have no clue what went on here between " now no longer friends"as it happened when I wasn't on and was totally unaware.
I just noticed oldtimers no longer posted and our OFF group was dead. So am really glad you are back. If you want to leave again, hope it's not anything I said or did.
Hugs
Jen
Jen....I did block a couple people. One was a friend. She was getting so hateful and using such bad language day after day. It happened on this sight too. Ranting about others and I got very stressed and couldn't deal with it anymore. I asked more then once for her to settle down and not be like that. I didn't work.
The other was for another reason. I would rather just let it go.
Just remember there are two sides to every coin!
I came here because I am trying to make peace. If you prefer I leave I will.
Hugs....connie d
Hello Jen!!
I know how you must feel with your chronic pain. You are right it is a constant
battle . I am sorry that chronic mobility pain is taking a toll on you.
I will be praying for you. 
HUGs....connie d
Hi Connie: now that I know you are posting more often, I promise to come by and read you!
Am battling my own mobility problems and chronic pain, am sure WLS must have helped in delaying onset although am told that many of my problems now may have been caused by decades of morbid obesity, making me wish I had surgery years before I did. Wishing you good luck with your new chair.
Hugs
Jen
Judy: am so sorry you feel so hurt. I know I missed whatever went on as am not on here everyday , and then suddenly a whole lot of regulars were gone and I missed them, you and your Funny Farm especially. Am not on Facebook so have no idea what went down there.
Please come back and give me and others here much needed chuckles. I will never forget everyone's kindness, support and advice as I went through my breast cancer.
Would be lovely if more of the oldies posted, but then people transition into their new lives after weighloss and may get too busy. Few newbies post here and I guess that's because most WLsurgeries are done on younger people who post on other forums.
Know that whenever you post here there are people who look forward to reading you.Those that block you do not see your posts, the thread will not show you posted. You will see their posts unless you block them too. So those that blocked you did not see your posts about your Mom.
Hugs
jen
Edited: correction..if someone blocks you, you will not see their posts. If you block them, they will not see your posts. Not sure if someone blocks you (meaning you can't see their posts) whether they can still see your posts if you haven't blocked them. Maybe someone here knows more about what happens with "blocking" ? I haven't tried it myself so really have no experience, jyst recalling what I once read on OH about blocking
I know she is not. When I first tried to join this group - she was rather rude to me /about me. But - reading her story made me realized that she is a broken person. in pain - physical. Chronic pain will affect someone mental ability in ways that I can't even try to understand. I know that when my back flares up and i am on pain pills- I have a hard time being "nice". I saw her as someone who is in pain. Physical and mental. Poor thing.
for the record -that can explain things - not excuse them. When I act like a ***** - I try to own it... and when I realize that - I try to apologize...
I know you deal with a lot of stuff...hugs...
losing a mother at any point in our life is for most people a horrible experience. No matter how old you are, or your mother, how much you think you are ready.... expecting it.
When that day comes - it may leave you unable to speak and even breathing can be a challenge. I lot my mother when I was 31... I wish I can tell you it gets better... For me -it got "different" . Time allowed me to accept her passing. But I don't miss her any less...
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."
Thank you for responding...funny thing is SHE also instigated a lot of what happened here and also on FB and ruined ALOT of friendships! If her "friends" KNEW how she really is I am sure they would also block her as well!!! She put me up to doing her dirty work and me being the idiot did it for her and I get the whole blame for everything!!! She is not as innocent as everyone thinks she is!!!
HUGSSSSSSS
Judy, sorry that you feel hurt and betrayed by someone who used to be your friend. You have a right to feel that way. I think some people are broken.. and they deal with so much that any more - they can't handle.
I hope you can find in you to forgive her. For she is the one that is missing out on your friendship.
I wish you can forgive her. because holding on to an anger is like drinking poison hoping that this will hurt the other person. I don't think she realized that is she would apologize and acknowledge your hurting ... in time - you could resume the friendship... Feel sorry for people like that...
hugs....
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."
I really think it is sad that people that I used to call my Friends on here have to BLOCK me now because I said to them....that I know that they all saw my post about my mom passing away and yet they could not say how sorry they were to me. I think that they need to GROW UP!!!!!!!!!
Hello everyone...are you all hiding today??
I am sure you are busy with summer!!
Pop in and let us know what's new and happening!!!
Have a great rest of the day!!
Love and hugs to all.....connie d
