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Vivian Prouty
on 10/30/11 11:36 pm - Fort Worth, TX
Topic: THIS WAS IN A EMAIL THIS MORNING TO ME AND THOUGHT IT WAS WORTH SHARING WITH OTHERS
 

From Courage Does Not Always Roar
by Bobi Seredich

When life gets you down and the problems you face
are certainly more than your share...
When you run out of strength and you want to give up
because it's just too much to bear...

I want to remind you, my precious friend,
that you have what it takes inside...
extraordinary courage that may not ROAR
but it doesn't cower and hide. 

It's the quiet voice inside you that says,
"Tomorrow I'll try again."
It's the courage to keep on going...
to see things through to the end. 

You are not defined by this moment in time,
You are not what has happened to you.
It's the way that you choose to respond that matters
and what you decide to do. 

Courage is not the absence of fear,
but a powerful choice we make.
It's the choice to move forward with PURPOSE and joy,
regardless of what it takes. 

It's the courage that's found in ordinary women
who are HEROES in their own way...
exhibiting strength and fortitude
in life's challenges every day...

Valiant women of exceptional courage
with enduring power to cope...
taking each problem one day at a time
and never giving up HOPE. 

These brave-hearted women have great resilience
and they lift each other as well...
bonded by a common understanding
each with a story to tell.

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE;   COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN;  AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!!    THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty      Obesity Help Support Group Coach  "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"


 

Kim H.
on 10/30/11 11:24 pm - Duluth, MN
Topic: RE: "Banders" not welcome?
Thank you Tom. You said that very well! (Wish I could have stated my feelings that well!)

~Kim~

                    
Kim H.
on 10/30/11 11:21 pm - Duluth, MN
Topic: RE: "Banders" not welcome?
OK, what kind of complications are we talking? But, you do not know ME. You can not "almost guarantee" how I will be doing in 5 years. I am not trying to be argumentative , but, wouldn't support for our fellow WLS friends be better than negativity?

~Kim~

                    
Vivian Prouty
on 10/30/11 10:18 pm - Fort Worth, TX
Topic: MONDAY GRATEFUL POSTO
  Good Morning Everyone,

HAPPY HALLOWEEN !!!   I owe everyone a appology.     I am SO sorry that I failed to post the Friday Grateful Post.    I was had a garage sale on friday and saturday.   I posted my Motivational post and then got side tracked and never returned to the computer.    For that I am very sorry.    We ALL have so very much in our lives to be grateful for.    Today I am SO grateful to have not put off having my garage sale ( I  have been putting it off for at least 3 to 4 yrs. ).    Grateful for my WLS and all the choices for surgeries today.    Grateful for second chances at a more productive life and for one of the very best bariatric surgeons there are IMHO.   Grateful for my Faith and answered prayers.  Grateful for my family, friends, life and health.    Grateful for my maintance of my weight.    Grateful for Obesity Help and all the message boards and wonderful people on here.     Grateful that I got rid of lots of things that I no longer needed.    PLEASE share with us if you will what you are grateful for today.    Have a blessed day !!!

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE;   COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN;  AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!!    THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty      Obesity Help Support Group Coach  "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"


 

Vivian Prouty
on 10/30/11 10:06 pm - Fort Worth, TX
Topic: MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE FOR TODAY
 

"Obstacles cannot crush me. Every obstacle yields to stern resolve. He who is fixed to a star does not change his mind."

Leonardo da Vinci

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE;   COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN;  AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!!    THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty      Obesity Help Support Group Coach  "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"


 

MARIA F.
on 10/30/11 5:01 am - Athens, GA
Topic: RE: "Banders" not welcome?
On October 29, 2011 at 7:03 PM Pacific Time, Kim H. wrote:
I do not know about the "Lap Band"...I only know about the Realize Band. I have the Realize Band and I am so glad I did it. I realize (no pun intended) some people have problems, but , really that could be said of any surgery, couldn't it? (Not JUST WLS either). We need to be supportive of one another. If we can not be, who are we gonna get support from. Just my opinion....
 
~ I realize (no pun intended) some people have problems, but , really that could be said of any surgery, couldn't it?~

Kim that can be said of any surgery, however the band has a very HIGH rate of complications. You will notice that it is very rare to see a bandster 5 years out. It is almost impossible to find one 5 yrs. out that has not had complications!

You have only had your band a few months. Everyone one loves their band initially. I can almost guarantee you that you will NOT feel the same way 5 years from now!!!

Good luck!

 

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Kim H.
on 10/29/11 12:03 pm - Duluth, MN
Topic: RE: "Banders" not welcome?
I do not know about the "Lap Band"...I only know about the Realize Band. I have the Realize Band and I am so glad I did it. I realize (no pun intended) some people have problems, but , really that could be said of any surgery, couldn't it? (Not JUST WLS either). We need to be supportive of one another. If we can not be, who are we gonna get support from. Just my opinion....

~Kim~

                    
MARIA F.
on 10/28/11 5:02 pm - Athens, GA
Topic: RE: "Banders" not welcome?
 
Jodi the band takes a lot of crap b/c it has the lowest stats, and the highest complication rate post-op. Keep in mind that those that point this out are criticizing the band and not you.

I know you want support, but support comes in many forms, and support is NOT telling someone what they want to hear. Support is being truthful with them and letting them know that their band may not work as it has been advertised, and that the band long term does not work well.

That being said............I do hope you are the exception, but don't count on it. The band is very much a crap shoot. Some are lucky, and have success with the band long term, but most do not.

Tom on this forum has done great with his band so far and is very inspiring. Bette on the Lap-Band forum has lost about 200 pounds, but has had to have her band replaced. Both Tom and Bette are awesome and can be very helpful to you as far as band info.

Good luck!

 

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MARIA F.
on 10/28/11 4:52 pm - Athens, GA
Topic: RE: "Banders" not welcome?
On August 17, 2011 at 6:42 PM Pacific Time, blessedmama2010 wrote:
I think some people feel the need to scream their opinions...sometimes we should really listen too, but sometimes the way things are said aren't the most inviting either.

For me personally, I feel a need to tell/educate people about some of the issues that I have personally experienced and seems like more and more are... The band is "SOLD" as a completely reversible, removable, great procedure. I have very mixed feelings about this. I have a failed band that slips all the time now...been dealing with it over a year now. Trying to discuss getting a revision, but turns out that nope, my surgeon won't do the revision, and now seeking out another surgeon doesn't seem to be going quite as planned either. There is also lots of issues with the band leaving so much scar tissue that it might be very difficult to remove without leaving damage behind and also very difficult to revise....therefore to ME, that is not quite reversible & removable and it is being sold. I think once you go through this type of scenario, it makes you much more adament to tell your story and make sure people see all the things that are happening. When I got my band back in 2008, there weren't near the horror stories there are now...

Good luck to you... I hope you have none of the negatives and have much success with your band!
 
The band is not a lot of things that it is advertised to be. :-( Removable..........yes. Reversable.............NO! It can be removed, but all the damage can't be removed. Also the "green zone" has turned out to be a myth for many of us bandsters. I personally have had 16 fills and 4 partial unfills. Never did reach restriction. Either too loose or too tight. Restriction, as it is advertised by the band manufacturers, never existed for me. This seems to happen to a lot of bandsters as well. One of the bandsters saw a different bariatric surgeon a few months ago and she told her about 20% of patients never reach restriction!!! That is a HUGE failure rate.............then you have to take into account band failures for other reasons! Very sad that the bands have been allowed to advertise falsely as they have!

I hope you will be able to revise. I would love to be able to revise myself!

 

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MARIA F.
on 10/28/11 4:43 pm - Athens, GA
Topic: RE: "Banders" not welcome?
On August 16, 2011 at 6:04 AM Pacific Time, bert99 wrote:
 If you had gone through what I have gone through in the almost four years I have had this band, you, too would share the same outlook on the band.

Heed others advice.  There's a reason so many people have a hate-on for the band.

Best of luck to you.  :)
 
I agree with you completely. I know that most of the newbies seem to only want to hear the happy band stories..............but there just are not that many of them long term. Let's be serious.........how many do we know that have had the band 5 yrs.? Very few! And of those..............how many have not had band complications? I know of 1. VERY BAD STATS! :-(

 

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