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GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"
HAPPY HALLOWEEN !!! I owe everyone a appology. I am SO sorry that I failed to post the Friday Grateful Post. I was had a garage sale on friday and saturday. I posted my Motivational post and then got side tracked and never returned to the computer. For that I am very sorry. We ALL have so very much in our lives to be grateful for. Today I am SO grateful to have not put off having my garage sale ( I have been putting it off for at least 3 to 4 yrs. ). Grateful for my WLS and all the choices for surgeries today. Grateful for second chances at a more productive life and for one of the very best bariatric surgeons there are IMHO. Grateful for my Faith and answered prayers. Grateful for my family, friends, life and health. Grateful for my maintance of my weight. Grateful for Obesity Help and all the message boards and wonderful people on here. Grateful that I got rid of lots of things that I no longer needed. PLEASE share with us if you will what you are grateful for today. Have a blessed day !!!
Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"
"Obstacles cannot crush me. Every obstacle yields to stern resolve. He who is fixed to a star does not change his mind."
Leonardo da Vinci
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"
~ I realize (no pun intended) some people have problems, but , really that could be said of any surgery, couldn't it?~
Kim that can be said of any surgery, however the band has a very HIGH rate of complications. You will notice that it is very rare to see a bandster 5 years out. It is almost impossible to find one 5 yrs. out that has not had complications!
You have only had your band a few months. Everyone one loves their band initially. I can almost guarantee you that you will NOT feel the same way 5 years from now!!!
Good luck!
Jodi the band takes a lot of crap b/c it has the lowest stats, and the highest complication rate post-op. Keep in mind that those that point this out are criticizing the band and not you.
I know you want support, but support comes in many forms, and support is NOT telling someone what they want to hear. Support is being truthful with them and letting them know that their band may not work as it has been advertised, and that the band long term does not work well.
That being said............I do hope you are the exception, but don't count on it. The band is very much a crap shoot. Some are lucky, and have success with the band long term, but most do not.
Tom on this forum has done great with his band so far and is very inspiring. Bette on the Lap-Band forum has lost about 200 pounds, but has had to have her band replaced. Both Tom and Bette are awesome and can be very helpful to you as far as band info.
Good luck!
For me personally, I feel a need to tell/educate people about some of the issues that I have personally experienced and seems like more and more are... The band is "SOLD" as a completely reversible, removable, great procedure. I have very mixed feelings about this. I have a failed band that slips all the time now...been dealing with it over a year now. Trying to discuss getting a revision, but turns out that nope, my surgeon won't do the revision, and now seeking out another surgeon doesn't seem to be going quite as planned either. There is also lots of issues with the band leaving so much scar tissue that it might be very difficult to remove without leaving damage behind and also very difficult to revise....therefore to ME, that is not quite reversible & removable and it is being sold. I think once you go through this type of scenario, it makes you much more adament to tell your story and make sure people see all the things that are happening. When I got my band back in 2008, there weren't near the horror stories there are now...
Good luck to you... I hope you have none of the negatives and have much success with your band!
The band is not a lot of things that it is advertised to be. :-( Removable..........yes. Reversable.............NO! It can be removed, but all the damage can't be removed. Also the "green zone" has turned out to be a myth for many of us bandsters. I personally have had 16 fills and 4 partial unfills. Never did reach restriction. Either too loose or too tight. Restriction, as it is advertised by the band manufacturers, never existed for me. This seems to happen to a lot of bandsters as well. One of the bandsters saw a different bariatric surgeon a few months ago and she told her about 20% of patients never reach restriction!!! That is a HUGE failure rate.............then you have to take into account band failures for other reasons! Very sad that the bands have been allowed to advertise falsely as they have!
I hope you will be able to revise. I would love to be able to revise myself!
Heed others advice. There's a reason so many people have a hate-on for the band.
Best of luck to you. :)
I agree with you completely. I know that most of the newbies seem to only want to hear the happy band stories..............but there just are not that many of them long term. Let's be serious.........how many do we know that have had the band 5 yrs.? Very few! And of those..............how many have not had band complications? I know of 1. VERY BAD STATS! :-(