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Tom C.
on 1/11/12 5:07 am - Mount Arlington, NJ
Topic: RE: Fallen bander- back on track
Susann,

Sorry for all you went through, and know my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Know we're here for you, and if you ever need help; someone to vent to; or a shoulder to cry on, you couldn't find a better bunch of folks.

With that said, I would strongly suggest contacting your Doctor an discuss all this. I would also suggest speaking to a Nutritionists, and maybe your Psych eval Doctor, and go to support groups. This is a long rough road, and doing it gets easier when we have all the proper tools and/or support we need.

Good luck on your journey!!! I know you can do it.
Good Luck on your Journey !!

Tom

“Nothing I will ever eat will give me the feeling I get as when I lose weight”  The views expressed are based on my own experiences - and should NOT BE FOLLOWED IN LIEU OF DOCTOR’S ADVICE/INSTRUCTIONS. Only your Doctor knows your condition, and make sure you talk to them before making any changes to your diet
Tom C.
on 1/11/12 3:48 am - Mount Arlington, NJ
Topic: My name is Tom, and I am an addict!!

You think with my 4 year Band-iversary coming up (January 28th) by now I would have a handle on my eating habits, but this past HOLIDAY only went to show that old habits can resurface. As a result, I gained around 20 pounds. This seems to be a “normal" pattern for me between Thanksgiving and New Year Day.

 

Now I can make a 1,001 excuses why I ate the way I did. I know WHAT I SHOULD HAVE DONE, but I still did what I WANTED to do. I know, you may ask yourself WHY, and the answer is simple, I AM AN ADDICT. Addiction will make us do things we know isn’t right, but we do them anyway. That’s why I empathize with anyone who is dealing with an addiction. While the “masses" may not view obesity as an “true addiction", I think many of us WILL AGREE IT IS.

 

While this type of behavior seems to me a “normal pattern" for me, what is also a “normal pattern" is come January 1, I get BACK ON TRACK by going BACK TO THE BASICS. For those who don’t know what I do, it’s simple. I pretend that I just had the operation, and I go through all my “eating stages" again, beginning with the liquid stage. I recommend to anyone who is struggling to do this. I truly believe this “resets" the body (and/or mind). I usually tell someone to do each stage for a few DAYS (2 – 3 day each stage). However for me, I need to do each stage for a few WEEKS (2 weeks per stage, like I had to do with the operation).

 

While I am embarrassed … ok, HUMBLED, to report a 20 pound again, I am pleasured to report that since January 1, I have already lost 10 of those pounds. Can I assure everyone this kind of loss will occur for them, no. But I can promise, for those who are having issues, that doing this will help them lose, and (hopefully) get their mindset back on the ultimate goal – losing weight. YES!!!

 

For anyone who is new to the bariatric world, or may be thinking about it, I want you to realize this isn’t an easy process. It takes work EVERYDAY to remain successful. Also, you need to realize during your path to success there will be stumbles and/or falls. What we do after those stumbles/falls is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. We need to get up, dust ourselves off, and remain steadfast down the road of success.

 

I wish each and every one you a very successful 2012. And please know I am always here for you.

 

Thank you for listen….errr reading this.

 

My name is Tom, and I am an addict!!

Good Luck on your Journey !!

Tom

“Nothing I will ever eat will give me the feeling I get as when I lose weight”  The views expressed are based on my own experiences - and should NOT BE FOLLOWED IN LIEU OF DOCTOR’S ADVICE/INSTRUCTIONS. Only your Doctor knows your condition, and make sure you talk to them before making any changes to your diet
A K
on 1/11/12 2:56 am
DS on 08/30/17
Topic: HCG, anyone?
 Hi everyone!

Happy Wednesday!

I was wondering if anyone here have tried HCG drops.
I have a few friends who have had great success with them but they have not had WLS.
I am doing well with my band but I am not above using some extra help - as long as it is not harmful to me.

Please share your experience if you have or know someone who has had WLS and use the drops.
Thank you!
Vivian Prouty
on 1/10/12 9:57 pm - Fort Worth, TX
Topic: WEDNESDAY GRATEFUL POST
 Good Morning Everyone,

I am grateful it is wednesday today.    I don't know why but I am.   LOL   Grateful for my family, friends, that I woke up today alive and well.    Grateful for my WLS, and all the choices of WLS available for the choosing.    Grateful for all my limbs on my body and for the body that the good Lord has now allowed me to have even though far from perfect.   Grateful for my Faith and answered prayers.    Grateful for Obesity Help and all the message boards here.     PLEASE share with us if you will what you are grateful for today.

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian 

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE;   COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN;  AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!!    THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty      Obesity Help Support Group Coach  "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"


 

Vivian Prouty
on 1/10/12 9:49 pm - Fort Worth, TX
Topic: MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE FOR TODAY
 Successful people are simply those with successful habits.
- Brian Tracy

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE;   COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN;  AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!!    THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty      Obesity Help Support Group Coach  "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"


 

Nic M
on 1/10/12 12:32 pm
Topic: RE: Anyone had to HAVE their band removed? I did....
Hi Riverrita,

I believe Maria already answered, but just click on the link in my signature and one of us will letcha in. Sorry to hear you're in the same boat... you'll find a LOT of us who know what you're going through. I look forward to knowing you.

Nicci

 

 Avoid kemmerling, Green Bay, WI

 

starstruck
on 1/10/12 12:18 pm - MN
Topic: RE: Feeling extremely hungry and I don't know what to do
 Hello Ashley, 

Thank you so much for your tip I will try it. 
Ashley A.
on 1/10/12 12:04 pm - Dayton, OH
VSG on 06/27/12
Topic: RE: Feeling extremely hungry and I don't know what to do
Hi Starstruck,

Congrats on the surgery! Sounds like you are doing well so far. I know how you feel, I was starving all the time by day 10 post op.  I started eating soft foods at that time, eggs, yogurt, etc. You won't have much restriction so you are going to get hungry, if you are hungry after 2 hours, I would recommend a light snack. After surgery, I mainly ate 6 mini meals-each around 1/2 cup each so I ended up eating every 2-3 hours. I hope this information helps. Good Luck!

Realize Band-12.1.08 Revision to VSG-6.27.12

  

starstruck
on 1/10/12 11:03 am - MN
Topic: Feeling extremely hungry and I don't know what to do
 Hello, 
I had surgery on 12/27 I was feeling great for the first time in my life that I was not hungry. As the days passed and the swelling went down I was unable to feel full in just clear liquids and then was switch to full liquids but that did not fill me up but for just a mere hour and half. So it came down to purreed foods but now I find that I am constanlty hungry every 2 hours or so. I am able to drink 50oz of water and I continue to only consume 1/2 a cup of food. 3 times a day Please help what should I do?  
Vivian Prouty
on 1/9/12 10:11 pm - Fort Worth, TX
Topic: TUESDAY GRATEFUL POST
  Good Tuesday Morning Everyone,

Our week is moving right along.   LOL   Today I am SO grateful for the rain that we have been getting here in Texas.   We had such a dry year last year and it is a welcome sight with the rain falling.    I am also so grateful for my WLS and all the choices for everyone with the different surgeries.    Grateful for my Faith and answered prayers, family and friends.....my health and life.    Grateful for support groups which are SO important in our WLS journeys.    Grateful for no major complicaitions in the 6 yrs. since my WLS.   Grateful for all the blessings that are going to come our way in 2012.   PLEASE share with us if you will what you are grateful for today.


Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE;   COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN;  AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!!    THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty      Obesity Help Support Group Coach  "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"


 

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