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bakerhall
on 3/24/11 8:54 am

Did you take your money and groceries back and tell him he could stand to lose 300 lbs? What a jerk!!! You are doing FABULOUS! I hope I will be as successful as you are in another 9 months!

HETSB
on 3/24/11 9:02 am

I would have told him that maybe he shouldn't take your money for food and maybe he should buy some protien shakes with it. What a jerk! He is just jealous that you have done somthing about your weight! You should really just feel sorry for him b/c he is clearly a very sad person.
I would call him on it and see what he has to say for himself!

Laura in Texas
on 3/24/11 9:16 am

RNY on 09/17/08 with

What a loser!!!! He has the nerve to ask your husband for money, and when you are kind enough to bring it and groceries over he is an ass????? You are far too nice. I would have told him what a pathetic loser he is, told him to f-off, and marched my NOT fat ass out of there with my money and my food. I would have told him he'll survive until he gets his check because his body has a lot of fat to live off of!!!!!!

Hugs!! Don't let this jerk get to you for one more minute. Think of the life he has and pray for his miserable soul....

Laura

PS Tell his husband he can take care of his friend from now own and that you won't be doing it anymore!!!!!

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

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Smileygrl810
on 3/24/11 9:21 am

RNY on 03/17/11

First of all... calling you guys and asking for money isn't an "easy way out"? Second of all... Please tell me you said something to let him know that he has no right to say something like that to you ESPECIALLY when you're there trying to help him out. I'm sure he was embarrassed at the fact that you guys had to help him out and that's how a lot of people deal with their own self issues is by hurting others but I don't and never will understand that. Keep your head up! You're gorgeous and you've worked hard to get where you are today!

Highest Weight: 318 lbs
Surgery Weight: 265 lbs
Current Weight: 183 lbs
Goal Weight: 145 lbs

poet_kelly
on 3/24/11 9:25 am - OH

RNY on 11/04/08

Why not tell Rob he's on the high side of super obese and he could stand to lose about 350 pounds.

Kelly

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(deactivated member)
on 3/24/11 9:57 am

RNY on 03/08/11

I would have taken my groceries and money back!

LauraInLawton
on 3/24/11 10:02 am - OK

You have shed the weight, now it's time to shed the guilt of feeling good about what you did for yourself. Congrats to you!

acbbrown
on 3/24/11 10:15 am - Granada Hills, CA

VSG on 06/10/11

He obviously missed the memo about "normal weight". You are a much better person than I am for leaving the food and the groceries. You should have your husband say something to him though about how those comments are really unacceptable, period, but ESPECIALLY when someone is helping you!!!!

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sunnydelightinpa
on 3/24/11 10:49 am, edited 3/24/11 10:50 am - Dawson, PA

You should of said yeah maybe I'll lose more weight now since I'm giving u my food money. Make him feel as bad as he's making u feel. He odviously knows what it feels like when people say something about his weight so I don't know why he's being an ass. Besides u are tiny. It got to be alot of jealousy going on.

pamkb
on 3/24/11 12:09 pm - Crestview, FL

RNY on 11/16/10

You have made wonderful progress, please do not let others bring you down or make you question yourself; you look marvelous!! I understand how his comments hurt you and made you angry, but I am glad you did not lash out at him in a manner that attacks his weight and obesity. He is in a bad mental place and his using poor judgement to lash out; many of us have inadvertently done that when we were at our highest weight and feeling miserable. I bet most of us can't recall those times, but I bet they happened.

You have done wonderful and you need to not let other people validate/undermine YOUR accomplishments!

I am creating my own revolution and PAMdemonium reigns!

RNY 11/16/2010

SW 270, CW 155, GW 135

1st 5k time 40:34 (Dec 2013)

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