Isn't this site supposed to be supportive??
I don't think YOU are being passive aggressive. Sorry if the reply made it seem that way. When you were playing with the block/unblock (and had me temporarily blocked as part of the experiment), I couldn't see your post and was confused about who Moonyouto was replying to... And I noticed that replies from at least one of the people who posted on this thread earlier were gone, so I assumed it was a response to something from that person (it didn't make sense that it was a reply to mine)... And frequently people will post something really negative towards someone and then block them immediately so that it is everyone BUT the person it it regarding can see it. THAT is what I assumed happened and what I called passive aggressive. I can see why it appeared that it was directed at you.
Again, I'm sorry that the temporary situation made it sound like that was directed at you. It definitely wasn't. At least it provides an example of the confusion that can sometimes result when people are blocked. Sometimes you can tell from the indentation that there is a post missing,but sometimes not.
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
seriously ,not the " the vets are so mean" again......old, old,old,old, I love it when it is someone who has not evenhad surgery,,,, come on,, grow up, get with the program, you know what you are supposed to do, DO IT, when we reiterate what you do know and YOUR program states then we are the ***** club, the mean old vets, so tiring, some days wonder why any of us stick around to help at all
Rny 2003
come join the new R&R 3.0, where the fun is:)
I am SO not in the mood for this right now. I did, however, put my exasperation aside and give an unemotional reply. Coming back to this after being on VERY little all week ****il the wee hours of this morning, anyway) is very disheartening.
Maybe instead of encouraging the "vets are mean" people to block the vets they think are mean or insensitive or "bullies", I will just block THEM.
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
It's funny, but I didn't take this as a "vets are mean" post either - I had a certain person in my head, who drives me nuts, and assumed it was about her ... 
I suspect, we all think it is about that certain someone who drives *us* mad ...
THIS is the problem with vague "some people" posts LOL!
Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist
But the criticism WAS about people who allegedly don't remember what it was like when they were at someone else's point in the journey... Just didn't use the word "vets". And then the other person chimed in with he nonsense about middle aged bullies...
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
Not with OUR awesome year of birth!
