Isn't this site supposed to be supportive??

Citizen Kim
on 8/2/13 11:02 pm - Castle Rock, CO

I think the majority of people here are very supportive - it might not always be what the person wants to hear - but for the most part, it comes from a good place and heart. 

However,  I do agree that there are some who seem to enjoy giving their opinions in a not so nice fashion and might i suggest that you have a choice?   You can ignore them, block them (so you don't have to read them at all) or call them out!   There's nothing wrong with telling someone that they're an ass, and if enough people do it, often enough, they might get the message!!!

 

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

Cicerogirl, The PhD
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on 8/2/13 11:46 pm - OH

Wait... It isn't time for this again, yet, is it?  Didn't we just do this a couple of weeks ago?   

 

Lora

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

Citizen Kim
on 8/2/13 11:55 pm - Castle Rock, CO

I think it was at least two weeks ago ...   Used to be a two month cycle, but things are obviously worse than we thought kiss

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

Laura in Texas
on 8/2/13 11:59 pm

I guess we are just being evil again enlightened

Laura in Texas

53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)

RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis

brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco

"May your choices reflect your hopes and not your fears."

Cicerogirl, The PhD
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on 8/3/13 12:09 am - OH

I thought maybe I missed the memo. kiss

Lora

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

Professor Sonja!!!!
on 8/3/13 1:30 am - Miami, FL
RNY on 08/15/12

Meanies!!!  Go to your corner!!!

 

indecision

 

Come keep it real in R&R 3.0 Want an invite? PM me here.

 

    

Nutterbutter
on 8/3/13 12:11 am - NJ
Um, yeah we did but, gotta say this comes off to me as unhelpful....sorry but you said you wanted to know
Cicerogirl, The PhD
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on 8/3/13 12:20 am, edited 8/3/13 12:20 am - OH

It wasn't intended to be helpful.  I was intended as a mild expression of my personal exasperation with this repetitve, passive aggressive approach.

Lora

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

Nutterbutter
on 8/3/13 12:22 am - NJ
But I thought the forum was meant to be helpful? Maybe I haven't been o here long enough to be exasperated with people
Citizen Kim
on 8/3/13 12:24 am - Castle Rock, CO

You have been here exactly 2 months ...

Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist

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