Unfair advantage?
Okay, so a weird question here. I am about 3 1/2 months post RNY. Today, my workplace announced a weight loss challenge. You pay $10 to enter, the employer matches half of all the entry fees and then the winners split the pool.
So, as I was printing the email, I started thinking, would it be fair for me to enter? Obviously those who say yes, can say the surgery makes a win "easy". But on the other hand, I could eat total crap the whole time and lose.
So, should I enter?
Thanks!
I think it would be an unfair advantage. I know we still have to work to lose weight after WLS, but it is a lot easier to stick to small portions when your stomach is the size of a egg instead of a football.
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To me, yes, you would have a HUGE unfair advantage. How would you feel if you joined it as someone who had not had surgery, worked hard to limit your food (while managing your hunger) and exercise and then found out that someone else who joined (and may have "won") had surgery when -- as you said -- they would lose weight without doing a damn thing (which pretty much defines an unfair advantage to me!)? I would be seriously pissed off at that person, as I think most people would be.
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
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Yes, you would have an unfair advantage. I think the challenge should not allow anyone less than 2 or 3 years out to join. I have heard of some workplace competitions that never allow weight loss patients to join in, but I think past 2 or 3 years we lose at a normal rate so to me it would be fair then.
Laura in Texas
53 years old; 5'7" tall; HW: 339 (BMI=53); GW: 140 CW: 170 (BMI=27)
RNY: 09-17-08 Dr. Garth Davis
brachioplasty: 12-18-09 Dr. Wainwright; lbl/bl: 06-28-11 Dr. LoMonaco
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I think you'd just be asking for problems with your co-workers. If you won (which you probably would, since in the beginning it is much easier to lose weight than before the surgery).... I would bet that most people would be very resentful that you won because they would know you had an advantage
Maureen Tired of Living my Life in the Dark
Though I don't think of it as truly "unfair"- I think you would be inviting trouble by joining in. Do you coworkers know about your surgery? If they do, and have a healthy sense of humor, maybe you could start a side competition- "Beat the guy/gal with WLS". That way you could participate and help to encourage them...
I like this idea :)
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