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White Dove
on 9/5/25 7:12 am
Topic: RE: Finally Friday's Menu

I like ethnic festivals and trying their different foods. They will have dancers, singers, and other shows. We have them all summer, Africa American, Greek, Irish and Italian festivals. In the fall there are apple festivals and some various art festivals and of course Octoberfest. I used to watch the paper for festivals and usually attended one every weekend.

I cannot do all that walking now but have great memories.

Jen, hope the bad weather stays away from you. Stay safe.

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White Dove
on 9/4/25 8:55 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Thursday Menu?

I learned the only way I can eat meat is with a lot of sauce. A1, Heinz, or something homemade. I make an orange chicken that is really good and I can eat a lot of that. Yesterday I made a beef burgundy with fresh pasta, but ate two bites and was too full to eat more. I can eat filet but only cook it to rare and slice very thin.

Julia, that milk sounds awful but might be good for a milkshake with lactose free ice cream. My sister has tons of cherry tomatoes and I have been eating them a lot. A few more weeks of good tomatoes and then that will be it until next August.

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White Dove
on 9/3/25 7:38 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Wednesday Menu?

What a lot of things going on. I have nephews that are four and six and their house is right at the edge of woods. The boys are not allowed outside alone because there are bears, coyotes.and other animals in the woods. They have hunting dogs outside that can not be trusted around their chickens.

My favorite is an oven baked potato with crispy skin and lots of sour cream and chives. I love all potatoes and sometimes pan fry with lots of onions or just make a pot of mashed potatoes with butter.

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White Dove
on 9/3/25 7:31 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Wednesday Menu?

You and Marilyn have such great adventures together. I love reading about your vacations and look forward to pictures. Have a wonderful time.

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White Dove
on 9/2/25 7:54 am
Topic: RE: What?s on your Tuesday menu?

I would have cried over the baby kitten too. My husband spent years with physical therapy for shoulder pain. An operation finally relieved it but there was a painful six months recovery time.

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White Dove
on 8/29/25 8:37 am
Topic: RE: Finally Friday's Menu

When I was growing up, girls did not usually have stuffed animals. Girls got dolls, often with diapers and baby bottles so we could prepare to be mothers. My brothers had teddy bears. It was part of giving kids the "correct" toys. Stuffed animals for girls were a big thing in the 70s and some girls had a bedroom overflowing with them.

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White Dove
on 8/28/25 9:42 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Thursday Menu?

There is an Ohio congressman named Tim Ryan. I know him personally and he has always worked to really help people. He lost his last election to a MAGA supporter. MAGA will not last forever and Tim will be back in office. He plans to run for president and I believe he will be successful. Remember that name, you will hear it again.

It is so important to get involved in local politics and know the candidates and what they stand for. The really greedy ones are having a field day now. They need to be voted out. I have done my share of going to demonstrations, marching, making signs, talking to candidates one on one.

I can get Irish citizenship because my father was born there. I could live there but would have to wait three years for medical care to be covered. I have plenty of cousins there and keep in touch with them. Two of my sisters have houses there and go there often. I do not want to buy a home again but would rent.

Mel, the kitten pictures are beautiful and make me want to adopt one of those babies.

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White Dove
on 8/27/25 10:08 am
Topic: RE: What?s on your Wednesday menu?

When I was in grade school there was a candy store that sold a box of pumpkin seeds for a penny. I think they were roasted and salted. It was one of my favorite treats. I wanted to grow my own pumpkin. I saved some seeds when my mother made a pumpkin pie and planted them. A pumpkin plant grew and was so pretty.

I had planted it in the front lawn. I was about six. My father put up with it for a while but finally cut it down. I tried again as an adult at my own home. The plants grew and got pumpkins but the rabbits at them.

My favorite nut now is macademia.

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White Dove
on 8/20/25 8:43 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Wednesday menu?

I can't have a Klondike bar, but I used to love them. I can eat lactose free ice cream once in a while. But I would love to be able to stop and get an ice cream cone sometimes. Just not worth the risk of dumping.

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White Dove
on 8/20/25 8:40 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Wednesday menu?

Relationships are hard no matter how perfect the other person is. Knowing when to get out is a good thing.

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White Dove
on 8/19/25 6:17 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Tuesday Menu?

I dont play the lottery so it is not something likely to happen. If by some weird chance I bought a ticket and won, I would set up a foundation to help young people who are struggling with education. i also would donate generously to animal shelters. There is a man in my town who set up a large shelter and rescues and finds homes for stray animals. I do donate but would love to be able to give more.

I can see where someone with your knowledge and experience would enjoy living off the grid. I have lived beyond most material wants, but money always comes in handy.

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White Dove
on 8/18/25 6:27 pm
Topic: RE: Weight Loss slowing down

30 months for me.

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White Dove
on 8/18/25 11:09 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Monday menu?

Glad the tooth is out and you are feeling better.

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White Dove
on 8/15/25 10:24 am
Topic: RE: Finally Friday's Menu

I am planning my October trip to Portland and looking for ideas for fun. Planning for a day at Oregon Zoo and a plane tour of Portland. Also want to see the volcano and the Columbia River and the Oregon coast. I was doing some work years ago for ascis shoes in Beaverton but working all the time I was there and no time for sightseeing. I am finally getting to do that.

Before I went to ascis, I called and asked about their dress code. They said wear anything you want as long as it is not a suit and does not say Nike on it. They were super casual dressers and some of them bought their dogs to work. I still plan to meet you there and take you on a dinner cruise.

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White Dove
on 8/15/25 6:25 am
Topic: RE: Finally Friday's Menu

No games on my phone but I used to play Candy Crush on it. When I was an iPhone technician one lady called and asked if I could teach her how to play Candy Crush. I said No because I did not think AT&T would consider that a good use of my time.

I do have Best Fiends on my Kindle and was in the 3000 levels. I got a new Kindle last month and it made me start over. No plans for the weekend except some light cleaning that I plan to get done today. I needed a pedicure and got that done yesterday.

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White Dove
on 8/14/25 9:04 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Thursday Menu?

When I lived in my first house I planted geraniums, petunias, and impatiens every spring. I had several flowerbeds and they were spectacular with beautiful colors. I also had window boxes and hanging baskets. I went out and watered for about 20 minutes every evening. In the daytime I deadheaded everything.

I was in Europe one summer and kept seeing homes and businesses covered with beautiful flowers, mostly petunias. You do need bushes too and I love holly. Blueberry bushes are quite pretty and you can get blueberries if you can outsmart the birds.

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White Dove
on 8/13/25 8:56 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Wednesday Menu?

I don't like anything with pumpkin spice and I really only like my own apple pie. Other people use too much cinnamon and don't cook the apples enough for me. Once there are good cooking apples available I will make my own pie.

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White Dove
on 8/12/25 8:36 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Tuesday Menu

When I was younger I walked or rode my bike all Spring, Summer, and Fall. Now I am happy to be at the pool and sitting in the sun. I am usually cold and appreciate the hot days and warm sunshine. Winter gets more depressing every year and I understand why people to south. I keep thinking about North Carolina. My sister and her husband have a home there and said I can move in with them any time.

I love my condo and my cat so staying here as long as I can.

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White Dove
on 8/7/25 2:31 pm
Topic: RE: What's on your Thursday Menu?

When I get low blood pressure they tell me to use more salt. Potato chips are good to do that but just keeping salt shaker close to my plate reminds me to use it. There are times I should have called an ambulence and avoided falling but I did not and broke bones and lost a tooth one morning.,

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White Dove
on 8/5/25 7:05 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Tuesday Menu?

I remember many women in the plant where I worked taking their summer off by having some minor surgery done on their feet and then saying it was not healing and staying off wor****il their kids went back to school. One day they made a list of the 100 worst offenders of sick leave in the plant and 20 of them were in my department.

They had a union that backed them and in order to keep the job they had to have worked eight hours during the past 365 days. It was the last work day of the year and I had one guy who had not completed eight hours that year. He came to work that morning. At noon he came to my desk and had only worked four hours. He said, "you will be hearing from my doctor and my lawyer." He left and slammed the door.

Because he had not put in eight hours that year the union could not win his fight to keep his job and he was fired. This was a man in is 40s who was quite healthy.

I was always fascinated by downhill skiing. I love water but never waterskied and not sure why. My brothers had a boat and waterskis but it just seemed like something I would not be safe doing and I jus****ched the kids doing it.

There is a place in Pennsylvania that grows peaches called Chambersburg peaches. The soil there has to do with growing them. They are ripe from now until the end of August and I can't stop eating them. They have smooth skin like a nectarine and so much juice you have to hold a napkin under them to keep it from spilling on the floor.

Your shepherds pie sounds so good with mashed sweet potatoes. For the next few weeks I will eat a lot of tomatoes, cucumbers, zucchini, and corn on the cob. When I was growing up we lived off the garden in hot weather. No air conditioning then but always a great garden so not heating up the oven kept the house a lot cooler.
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White Dove
on 8/4/25 10:28 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Monday menu?

The mountains I climbed were hiking. No ropes. I worked with a lady who made it a goal to climb Mount Everest. She trained with her husband and they climbed Mt Everest together. That is quite an achievement.

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White Dove
on 8/4/25 10:24 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Monday menu?

Our weather has been delightful, sunny, high 70s with a light breeze. In a condo there is nothing to do outside excep****ch the yard people do yard work. We are not allowed to grow agricultural products of any kind, not even a tomato on the porch.

Last summer one of my neighbors who is a doctor grew a beautiful garden in her backyard. Nobody wanted to say anything to her but board members were all upset. She is such a nice person and just did not know about the rules. They are not written down anywhere. She has no garden this year so I am sure someone talked to her about it.

People sometimes start gardens and then leave vegetables on the ground that attract rodents. There is woods behind us with lots of racoons, chipmonks, and I am sure mice and rats if something is left out to attract them.

Both the ocean and mountains are attractive to me. I did some mountain climbing when I was younger and never did deep sea diving. The diving would be fun as I love to see fish in the ocean.

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White Dove
on 8/1/25 8:14 pm
Topic: RE: Finally Friday's Menu

That is so interesting and I will look into it.

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White Dove
on 8/1/25 7:09 am
Topic: RE: Finally Friday's Menu

Blueberry will be wonderful. Enjoy the blueberries. I have been diabetic since I was 39. One thing they caution you is to never be barefoot. A tiny cut could fester and cause you to lose a leg. When you are diabetic wound healing is very slow.

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White Dove
on 7/31/25 8:19 am
Topic: RE: What's on your Thursday Menu?

I joined in 2003 when a friend had RNY and told me about the site. Back then it waq very busy and a lot of people had lapbands and seemed to be sick and vomiting everyday. I finally saw a weight loss surgery doctor in 2007 and he said that a lapband was not what he recommmend for me. I had RNY in October 2007.

I was very active on another site and very successful with the weight loss. But at 30 months I started gaining back. My surgeon told me that would happen but it was so depressing to not longer fit in my clothes. The site I was on was really focused on selling their protein shakes and some of them were awful. te I found good and bad advise here and learned who to communicate with and who to ignore.

I was trying to eat like a "normal" person with meat, vegetables, and a starch at every meal. Lots of pasta, noodles, or mashed potatoes. Lots of home baked cakes, pies, and cobblers, and ice cream. It did not make me sick, it just made me gain weight. I finally got control during the pandemic.

I joined Weigh****chers Online. They were developing their new program and I was part of helping to test it. With that program I finally got all the excess weight off and sometimes doctors want me to gain more. My goal was 136 and I got down to 118. I am 126 and that is a good weight for me. I learned a lot from this site and a lot from Weigh****chers. This is not an easy journey but still glad I had the surgery and got control of the weight.

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