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Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."
Is he receiving any treatment for the depression? I'd imagine that would be the number one thing, even beyond the arthritis and heavy weight. If he feels like he's already failed, he's not going to be motivated to take care of himself in this way (or in any other ways, really.)
I have a basement but don't dwell in it full time.
Hi, can anyone advise me how to encourage my husband to clean himself properly in the toilet? I talked to him about Bottom Buddy... he said he couldn't reach, but would try... he keeps making a mess in the loo and my family ( mum and son) are complaining. I'm in the middle of this. Keep trying to help but feel a bit lost; dreading that I might have to do this for him. He is deeply depressed and struggles with mobility due to arthritis and heavy weight, but I just sense he doesn't want to tackle this. any advice would be great. I feel like I'm going round in circles with this one. 
I went to a fantastic OB/ gyn and I had pelvic floor reconstruction due to 4 large children and weight loss. All was covered by my insurance and now 10 months post op I can honestly say sex is awesome! I can't believe I put off finding out what the issue was because I was embarassed. My husband loves me dearly and I really love him for having the courage to be honest with me and support me. These are not easy conversations to have but when love someone the intimacy you share does not only apply to the bedroom.
Bottom line...don't let fear or embarassment keep you from getting help.
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Phil: 4:13
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Also hormonal issues may play a role.
But - as long as you excuse that behaviors and allow it to continue - she does not need to do anything.
You need to sit with her when she is calm and talk about it. Even with hormones and sugar issue s- we do have control what we say and what not.
or maybe she has metal issue? like bipolar? maybe she needs to get evaluated by a professional and gets on medication.
AS long as you tolerate the verbal abuse - it will continue . She will change only is she wants to.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."
