Heartbroken but here
on 8/31/11 10:50 am
Keep coming here and posting. And hug those boys. It will help.
HW: 285 SW: 267 GW: 130
I know you feel torn apart, but I 'm glad you posted on here, and I hope you will continue to.
Take it one day at a time...thinking of you!
You were such an inspiration to me in those early days before my wls !!
I'm sending hugs and please know that I am both a survivor of a cheatin' lying (now ex) husband; and I am a therapist. If I can be of any help, just let me know.
I know first hand how horrible this is to walk though. I am sorry he was such an ass, and betrayed your marriage vows and your trust. I am sorry your "friends" turned out to be everything but real friends.
All I can tell you is that some time in the future, you WILL be whole again, with or with out husband, and with different friends.
High Wt 300 lbs. Pre-op Wt loss 34 lbs. 
My heart is breaking for you...with friends like that who needs enemies!
I am sooOOoooo sorry to hear about what is happening. the most important thing is to
get your emotional health stable. its ok to stay with your husband, because it is a choice
you are making. I am happy to hear you both are getting help. The most important thing
is YOU... YOU are the most important thing..... This is what i worry about.
I support your decision and if you want to chat meebo or privately, I am here.
Does your husband show remorse or want to stay with you?
Did you dump your two friends? You can answer in PM.
I am here for you... i really am........ My heart supports you and i feel your pain and shock.
Oh hun I am sooOOoooo sorry for that burning feeling....... I experience that same feeling'
with the love of my life once..and lost him to partying........ He was my x husband.
Remember We Marry for Better or of Worse... I pray that you get through this.
HUUUUUUGS long hugs
✿ L♦O♦V♦E ✿ & ✿ P♦E♦A♦C♦E ✿ღ ✿ & F♦R♦I♦E♦N♦D♦S ✿ ღ
"Keeping The Faith!" "Slim by Summer!"
HW: 250 - SW: 241 - CW: 154.7- GW: 140
1 month: 22 pounds (216) 2 months: 12.2 pounds (203.8) 3 months: 10.6 (193.2)
4 months: 9.7 lbs (183.5) 5 Months: 6 pounds (177.5 ) 6 Months: 12 lbs ( 165.5)
7 Months 7.1 lbs (158.4) 8 Months +1.6 pounds(159.8) 9 Months 2.7 pounds (157.1)
10 Months 8.1 lbs (149) 11 months +2 pounds ( 151) 1 YEAR!!! 2.6 pounds (148.4)
Hit "One-derland April 9th, 2011 (199.7)
"Half-Way Goal" April 25th, 2011 (194.8)
"Happyland 80`s" May 14, 2011 (189.6)
"Groovyland 70`s" June 20th 2011 (179.9)
" HippyDippyland 60's" July 16th (169.8)
" CQQL-land 50`s" August 25th ( 159.8)
"Normal BMI" 24.8 October 21st, 2011 (154.5) I am 5`6
"AWESOME-land 40's" Dec 1st 2011 (149)
"Century Club 100 Pounds" Dec 1st 2011 (149)
' ONE YEAR SURGIVERSARY!!!"
Two Year Surgiversary!!!"
A very good psychologist told me during this time, "Don't stress about what you should do. Just maintain the status quo and when it comes to you it will come to you and you will know that you know." That got me through a lot.
"The grass is not greener on the other side, it's greener where you water it. " HW: 258 CW: 222 
