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Liz WantsHealthForAll
on 10/30/25 3:29 am - Cape Cod, MA
VSG on 03/28/16
Topic: RE: Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Thanks for the warning on the Reclast. I am surprised they had you on Fosamax with a gastric sleeve. Most everything I read cautions against that and my PCP said that the oral meds would not be a good idea for me.

So sorry you had to have such an uncomfortable but really valuable meeting. My mother broke her hip in her early 60's when she fell while drinking. She was a long-term alcoholic (and a nasty one at that). We had a similar family meeting at the rehab hospital when the truth of it came out and she was told in no uncertain terms that if she drank and fell again she might never walk. It was so hard to tell the truth about her drinking for the same reasons you expressed - it was a family secret not to be told. We had a second round of that discussion when she developed congestive heart failure about 10 years later because she had sunk back into drinking though not quite as deeply. She did stop completely after that thank goodness and I enjoyed my relationship with her for her last 15 years, as did my children.

I guess I have been making cottage pie over the years and calling it shepherd's pie (I have always used beef).

Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish

Liz WantsHealthForAll
on 10/30/25 3:17 am - Cape Cod, MA
VSG on 03/28/16
Topic: RE: Wednesday, October 29, 2025

So beautiful! I can see why you hate cutting it back but it is worth it to have it bloom again next year!

Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish

Liz WantsHealthForAll
on 10/30/25 3:16 am - Cape Cod, MA
VSG on 03/28/16
Topic: RE: Wednesday, October 29, 2025

I'm not surprised you are dropping weight in the midst of all this work getting ready to move. I assume the inspection turned out well?

No, I don't have to do any massage, so no discomfort other than the injections which weren't bad at all. It is supposed to take up to 2 weeks to get its final form which is when they want to see me in case they need to add a bit. Better to go a little less than more of what is needed. Maybe the fillers are made out of different stuff these days?

Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish

CC C.
on 10/29/25 8:38 pm
Topic: RE: Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Hugs to you, DD. Doing the right thing is often not easy or comfortable. Keeping your mom's secrets would mean her not getting the help she so desperately needs. You did good!

DiamondD
on 10/29/25 2:21 pm
VSG on 06/13/12
Topic: RE: Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Haha, ABAH. I now have a name for a rule I always follow. Air conditioning is a blessing and a curse. Even in the summer, I never go to the movies, or out to dinner, theater or a concert without a hoodie, cardigan or wrap.

diane S.
on 10/29/25 2:17 pm
Topic: RE: Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Congrats on making it through yesterday DD and doing so with some real progress. Gotta love the social worker for being the "heavy" and spelling it out. Don't feel bad for ratting out your parents because it is 1. truth and 2. for their own good. It is so good that there is a social safety net that sounds pretty functional. You are indeed good for doing the right thing even though it was not easy. And good you have brother and SIL for support. Enjoy the heck out of aussie sister and these great fall days. You deserve it.

Here in Humboldt county the rule is "ABAH". Always bring a hoodie.

Shepard's pie. Ultimate comfort food. Enjoy.

Diane S


      
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diane S.
on 10/29/25 2:09 pm
Topic: RE: Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Yes this shrub will get thicker and flower more after being cut back. I think that is why ours is so thick - being cut back each Halloween. Others around town are sort of spindly. This plant comes from Brazil and won't take frost. It blooms several times per year. Our front yard is now full of plant parts. Trimming was all I can do today. Our walk looks like it rained purple rain....


      
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PaulaW1965
on 10/29/25 1:10 pm, edited 10/29/25 6:11 am
Topic: RE: Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Oh DD! All the feels! What you are doing is another right thing to do, family secrets and all. Hope the hangover doesn?t last long. I?m glad you get your sister as a backup soon and can tackle this together. Such tough decisions! Reminds me of when we needed to tell on Dad to get his driver?s license taken away. It actually went much smoother than we imagined. Praying for some smoothness in your parents transitions too!

DiamondD
on 10/29/25 12:40 pm
VSG on 06/13/12
Topic: RE: Wednesday, October 29, 2025

That is so gorgeous! Will chopping it back make it flower even more? Is it like Lilacs, where chopping back gets better blooms, but it might not be for a couple of years, or will it flower again next year? Is it year round flowers, or seasonal?

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