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Greetings all
The rain eased up and the sun is out. I started my errands by picking up payroll, spending time at the studio glazing and otherwise puttering. The studio interior is getting some paint and rearranging thanks to the coup on the glass studio. better use of space and ease in the never ending process of pottery being created, dried, first fired, glazed and then second fired. Every piece gets handled through all these step. Our staff works hard.
After that I picked up my new stuff and took it to the gallery and picked up money. Somehow, people at the gallery keep accidentally locking the bathroom door and then closing it from the outside effectively locking everyone out. It is an old house but how people keep doing this is beyond me. Oh well. There is now a secret nail that will open the lock from the outside. I made a quick stop at the grocery and was amused by the old hippie shoppers who were singing along to the Janis Joplin muzak.
Liz sorry you had a soggy evening. But better than being in Jamaica. The reports from there are terrifying. Stay dry all. And good on you for being low paper. I just can't seem to get the hang of it. Too many years of reviewing and preparing paper documents for a living
DD what a tough day you have had. Sometimes I think old people get cranky because that is the only way they think they have control over their lives. Seems like it is a pattern for some aging brains to become more crabby. That certainly was Crazy Pat whose behavior caused my mother's care service to quit. Hospice people are saints and they will do the med management and all kinds of things. I am hoping your mother will accept hospice (maybe if she thinks it is her idea) and have some piece and comfort. Being angry so much must be exhausting.
Well the dogs are on a rampage. Must be a cat in the back yard. So much energy. Wish I had some.
Diane S
Today is a mixed bag. This morning my Mom texted me that she thought my Dad messed up her meds, and she couldn't trust him anymore to handle her meds. I agreed, and once again said they needed to hire help. (Although later, after discussing it with my brother, he said he's offered numerous times to set up her meds, and bought pill holders, but they refuse. She wouldn't let the visiting nurse do it either). DH and I went for our coffee. While I was there DB texted that my Mom called 911 and was on her way to the hospital. He said they decided to admit her because she might have pneumonia. I thought that was probably good (not that she might have pneumonia, but that they could help straighten out her meds). We went to the thrift shop where I scored a Kate Spade purse for $12, and a Vera Bradley laptop pouch for $7. So that was fun.
We stopped to look at some furniture, because we desperately need some new living room chairs, and I have decided to take some money from my 401B to buy some. I don't need any of the funds in the 401B to live on. It's not much, but it is can be my fun money. Anyhow, I thought why wait to spend some of it on durable goods. We might as well buy them now and enjoy them the next 15 years. While I was shopping my brother texted he met with a care counselor, and they want my Mom to start hospice and go to a nursing home. She said no. He said that they were going to talk to her again, and he also asked that they send the chaplain. She has received offers to start hospice off and on for the last 5 years. I think her life could be so much better for whatever time she has left (months? years?) if she had palliative care. Right now, She is about 2 hours away. I will go to the hospital tomorrow, even though she says she doesn't want to see anyone. This $%#+ is hard some days. I feel bad for her because I know she's scared and feeling awful. I feel bad for my Dad, because he is probably also scared. I feel bad for my brother dealing with this alone today. I feel sad for myself because it's all so sad.
DH and I are speaking frequently about what we will do when we are no longer able to adequately care for ourselves. I'm not sure how many years we could self pay in skilled care if we need those options. I think we could do a mid range priced independent/assisted living setting for quite a few years. Our fervent hope is to not burden our children unnecessarily. Anyhow a somber day with a few shots of light heartedness. It's going to be that way sometimes.
Super concerning! DD continues to be paid at the VA due to some kind of funding source I don't understand, since she is "client facing". But her boyfriend, who works at IT is expected to be there every day and is not getting paid. (and in fact it is more stringent, he had a dentist appointment he scheduled months ago, it fell during this shutdown time ,and he had to document he was actually going to the dentist even more than normal) Luckily her boyfriend is a big time saver, so he has funds to carry him through, but lots and lots of people don't. And because they are expected to be at work, they can't go do some other job right now to make ends meet.
It will take a few days for the filler to fully spread out and do its thing. I bet you'll be happy.
I'm actually not supposed to massage anything. It actually feels fine now that the numbing gel has worn off.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
I can see a difference after the filler but DH didn't notice LOL!
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
Depending on the filler used, you can easily achieve that outcome! The accusation of having a serious resting ***** face was the reason I started using botox on my 11's between my eye brows. I'm assuming my lower face lift will correct the nasal labial folds which make my face resemble Sam the Eagle.
Worrying about how the government shutdown is going to impact a lot of innocent people as it drags on longer. My stepson stops receiving a paycheck this week and his wife is on furlough. I have tried to be extra kind to the TSA people at the airports who are working without pay. My Massachusetts hometown bank is offering no interest loans up to $2500 with one year to pay them back for those affected. Not a lot, but potentially could keep someone afloat for a month.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
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Well golf and dinner out last night became wet affairs! We only got 3 holes in and my last 2 putts on the 3rd hole were accomplished while DH held an umbrella over me. We went home, dried up, then went to our friend's home for a drink before dinner out. By the time we left for the restaurant it was like a monsoon outside. Even with umbrellas we got soaked getting to the car, then into the restaurant. Nice place but we had to sit inside because of the rain. I think DH and I would like to go back and sit at one of the outside bars on a nice weather night (the restaurant is on the water and has lots of good outdoor space). We had fun with our friends though!
Today is the filler this morning, then an appointment with the endocrinologist to follow up on my thyroid nodules. They say I am supposed to arrive 1/2 hour before the afternoon appointment! I get adding 15 minutes for paperwork, but 1/2 hour? I think they are overdoing the time to avoid delays but since I am always on time it annoys me that I will probably be sitting for an extra 15-20 minutes. One of those times when I feel like my time is valued way lower than the physician's.
So I was thinking about Peps' and Diane's issues with paper piling up and why I don't have that problem anymore though I used to have stacks and stacks of it in my kitchen and office. It is because I am essentially paperless for everything! I started doing that at work because my office was going paperless, but have continued it over the years more and more at home. All those "papers" are electronic now! Bills, notices and receipts are in my email or stored in electronic folders. Tons of notes to myself and lists are in my electronic notepad. My calendar is electronic so I throw away appointment cards once I transfer the information. Pictures are overflowing in my photo app. So there is just as much "clutter" but it is hidden on my electronic devices. Somewhat easier to find stuff via searches, but still gets a bit messy. And trying to figure out how to pull out enough information to leave for our heirs is a bit hairy.
Just got notice from the club that the golf courses are closed today because we received 6 inches of rain last night. I guess DH won't be golfing today.
Luckily it is dry right now so we can do our Justice walk. I need to skip water aerobics because of my morning doctor appointment. Have a monsoon Monday!
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish
I think some people repeat their parent's behaviors but others learn from their parent's failings and are present for their own children in a way they wish their parents had been.
Liz 5'3" HW: 219 SW: 185 GW: 125 LW: 113 Desired maintenance range: 120-125 CW: 119ish


