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toolio 22 years, 2 months ago

Hey Jenn! So 2 whole cookies? Are you sure you're not going to he!!? LOL!!! PELLEEEZE! That's nothing! One of the hardest things for me post op has been avoiding the horrible POWER that food has over us MO's (or former MO's ;)). If you feel this bad over something as meaningless as a couple of cookies, it will be hard to tackle the obsessions. Guilt over little things shoots down our self esteem and confindence. I felt bad for you getting so upset about this! You are doing so well and this will NOT derail your success! I think the best lesson learned here is not to feel guilty about 2 cookies because POUCHY made you feel bad enough! Hang in there, girl - you are rockin'!

Karen97869 22 years, 2 months ago

~~ JEN ~~ Girl, don't beat yourself up for succombing to temptation. ONLY ONE ON THIS EARTH was able to resist. Yes, it wasn't brain surgery and we are bound to " slip " for a while but, like you said, you now have your tummy to remind you that you are NOT the same person you were before. Let's face it, you probably would have not only eaten those two cookies - it would have been the bag, just like I used to. Surgery is a tool and it is meant to be our reminder that the old " us " is no longer existant. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and go on. It was only two cookies! I found that I can eat a whole refill pack of Pez in one sitting without dumping - and I mean the whole package of like 10 rolls - and I fell off the bandwagon for a while, too! I have now rededicated myself to my " regimen " and have been doing three protein shakes a day, getting in all of my water and have stopped using Pez!!! LOL It's a learning experience and you're NOT a bad person for having those two cookies! Forget about it and start anew!!! If ya ever need to vent or talk, I'm here for ya girl! Love, Hugs and Blessings! †

summewe 22 years, 2 months ago

Jennifer - You find strength in being a supportive sister who doesn't let someone else take advantage of her. Lovingly, stand your ground. Don't be a push-over. Be strong and you'll be happier for it. Wendy (a big sister who always comes to the rescue)

Moysa B. 22 years, 2 months ago

Hi, Jenn: I'm still a pre-op, hoping to have surgery August 19th. I just wanted to thank you for your words of advise about not comparing yourself to others...I know that's gonna be hard for me to do. Since I'm a relative lightweight at 273#, I think I'm probably going to be a slow loser too. While losing quicker is more mentally satisfying, I think that losing slower will allow my body to bounce back better and my skin to adjust better. Oh well, I'll just have to see what happens after surgery. I don't think there's any way to predict whether one will be a slow or fast loser. By the way, I just wanted to tell you that your pics look great! Thank you for being an inspiration to us pre-ops! Good luck on the rest of your journey, and God Bless!

Kate G. 22 years, 2 months ago

Somehow I missed your new pic getting up. I cannot believe how incredible you look! You're just gorgeous! I'm so happy for you!!!! I loved reading your profile just now. I'm with you, girl, on the food addict deal. It's a struggle!

Wendy D P. 22 years, 3 months ago

<font color="007000" face="tahoma">Jennifer.. OMG your new picture is WONDERFUL!! You look great! Congratulations!! I love that you update your profile as much as you do! Thank you for sharing your story! <P>Wendy D</font>

de 22 years, 3 months ago

Hi Jennifer, you are doing great!! Do u happen to have that recipe for the fudgy tasting protein bars?? if so, could ya send it to me please?? Thanks DE

MommaAngel 22 years, 3 months ago

HI JENNIFER You look awesome girl. Your doing such a great job with your weight lose, Keep up the wonderful job your doing.You look younger. LORD BLESS

summewe 22 years, 3 months ago

JENNIFER You are amazing! I love your attitude and love of life. You are an inspiration. Wendy

Justin F. 22 years, 4 months ago

I am having surgery on April 11th. Strngely enough I want to go skydiving when I lose the weight too. That has been one of my lifetime dreams. I hope you have lots of fun.God Bless.