Hi Tonia,
I just checked your profile, and wanted to give you a big hug. I know what it's like to be a single mom, and want to throw in the towel some times. You're doing well, I'm so glad to hear. Hang in there with your little one. Tell the 16 year old to help more. Mine helped, but left a lot to my mom too. My husband had to work. I wish you all the best! Just wait, the best comment my 15 year old said was, "Hey mom, I can hug all the way around you now." My 3 year old said in a resturant the other day, "Mommy, you're not fat". That blew me away! He's so observant.
Take care
Des