You find out who your friends are

Apr 26, 2015

This surgery not only changes your life, it also proves who truly is a genuine "friend". I have had multiple male friends stop talking to me because I am no longer (in their words) "Big and sexy". A friend that I thought was a close one actually told me yesterday, "I wish you stayed fat, you looked so good." Seriously?? What the hell is wrong with society and people! I gave him plenty of my mind and it wasn't very lady like. And then blocked him. This issue is something that has never sat well with me, someone only being interested because I'm a big girl. I get it, people have taste and preferences. But I am a great person big or small! If someone wants to be out of my life because I am not "big enough" for them, then that's their damn loss. It just helps to remove even more of the negativity that I do not need in my life. Adios Bitchachos! :) Has anyone else encountered problems like this?? 

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