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The dreaded first Christmas gift dilema. HELP!! - He says buy him a shirt.  I said what do your kids buy you?  He said shirts that don't fit.  I said I was not going to take THAT risk. lol. I am so clueless.  Obviously I don't ...

Our Thanksgiving - Oh my gosh.  I am so glad he was here.  It was a wonderful evening with my two daughters and their boy friends and one boyfriends mother whom I had never met and a friend of hers. ...

Hey ya'll! Gobble Gobble Gobble! - I just wanted to pop in and say hey to my favorite peeps on OH.  I'm hanging in there.  For those of you who don't know I realized I had a serious drinking problem last Saturday mo...

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Transfer addiction resources please - Yep, it happened to me. I started drinking in September and didn't stop.  Until today.  My last drink was last night and I am not drinking today. I went to an AA meeting at n...

My weekend plans - This afternoon I Hank is going with me to pick out a light fixture for over my kitchen table.  The former owners (foreclosure) stole it but I'm sure it (along with every thing else...

Wedding gift ideas for second weddings (adults)? - My cousin is getting married again.  They are in their 40s and I assume they will be combining households.  I have no idea what to get them for a gift.  I hate money/gift certs for...

OT: Techies about iPad books - Is there some way to buy a book for someone else to put on their iPad?  I can't figure this out.  I do not have an iPad or an e-reader myself. Thank you!! ~Becky

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Over due update - I have be negligent in keeping you guys updated and I apologize. At my last update I had broken up with Hank and was back to cruising POF and OKC. I realize,d pretty fast that ...

Radio silence is really mean - So this farily local guy and I seemed to hit it off.  Great email exchanges and I laughed a lot.  Then I get radio silence.  He's not blocked my on OKC (yet) so I know when he's be...

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How do you even respond to this? - This is the sum total of the communication from this local dude: Him: Hi.  You have a nice smile. Me: Thanks! Him: What?  Aren't you interested? Me:  A couple of paragraphs a...

OT: What do you use to clean wood laminate floors - I just got new floors and I don't know what to buy to clean them with.  What do you use and why? THANKS~ ~Becky

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I guess it is a bad sign if I'm trolling OKC again - Yep I found myself back looking.  Maybe this period of dating Hank has given me what I needed to put myself back out there and not be so afraid to date and meet new guys. Pickin...

update again - Hank was able to talk to the neuro today.  Repeat CT shows diffuse bleeding and swelling everywhere and although I don't think they have consulted palliative care it is now a death...

Stress and the DS - It has been a stressful time for me.  Buying the house.  Rehabbing the house.  (I'm still not moved).  Meetiing a great new guy.  And then on Wednesday evening his friend and broth...

update on Hank's bil and meeting more family - He looks bad to me but I didn't get to talk to the neuro.  They are managing it medically and I think this is a waiting game. Today I got to meet his gorgeous daughter (step dau...

How not to meet the extended family - Hank and I were having pillow talk about whether it was too soon for me to meet his family at Thanksgiving when his phone rang.  His brother-in-law was involved in a serious motorc...

Hank meets flyball practice - Well I don't see how it could have gone any better.  A lot of folks took the initiative and introduced themselves to him.  He helped ball shag.  He took a break when it got too lou...

OT: FInding love post DS - So many of you followed my story after my DS 2 years ago.  Along with the dramatic weight loss came some significant depression, the loss of some "friends" here on OH whom I still ...

"Will you be my girl?" he asks - Too cute.  He's a sweetie. Tomorrow he is going to see what flyball is all about.  We'll see if he still wants me to be "his girl" after he sees what I do for fun. ~Becky

He deleted OKC profile - or hid it if that is possible.  At any rate it isn't there anymore.  ~Becky

Do you always have to kiss some frogs? - I'm not thinking so. "Hank" is the best thing that has happened to me in decades.  OKCupid made this match and I am just feeling lucky as HELL. He is SUCH a good guy.  I can'...