**Cara *.
I have been heavy almost my whole life, I was a heavy but very active child, I played softball year round. Not until high school really was when I lost weight and looked good. Then my junior year hit and I got pregnant, well let me tell you, all hell broke loose. With a very unhappy pregnancy, came a lot of very unhappy eating. Well my daughter is 12 now, and still haven't lost the baby weight....guess I can't say it's baby weight anymore. I have gone up and down, but have not been skinny since I have had her. I did get married 2 years ago this last March, but am now divorcing unfortunately. He was happier being alone, and couldn't handle being a father to a growing girl with a growing attitude, if ya know what I mean. He hated he wasn't in control of everything in his life anymore because there were 2 other people to add to his life.
Anyways, enough about him. I am ready to be happy again, I have great friends, great family and the most wonderful daughter in the world to help support me on this. So here I go on my journey, if anyone has any suggestions to help me through it, it would be more then appreciated.