divalicious0007
My story goes like this.I am a mother of two that are very active(love them to death).I take care of my 70yr old mother that has many health issues & I try to help my father as much as I can. I have been dealing with weight issues I guess since high school. I was always the bigger gurl but not really thinking about that the smallest gurl only weighed about 90lbs and was wearing a size 5. I always thought that I needed to try to look smaller to fit in with the crowd, so I always tried to hide my features with big shirts and things like that. When actually there was nothing wrong with me at all. I did ok for the most part but always felt like I needed to improve. As I got older and wiser I learned to accept my body for what it was. I wasn't the type of person that you would think would ever have kids but god saw different. I was a heavy traveler( jamica, cancun,barbados,virginia beach,myrtle beach,and bahamas just to name a few), in a female motorcycle club & loved the night life. You know just never was the sitting in one place type of person. By having kids it prepared me for the things that are taking place in my life now. I never would have thought that my mom would be in the shape that she is in now. She was so alive and free spirited & now she is so dependent on me. I LOVE MY MOTHER UNCONDITIONALLY and theres NOTHING I wouldn't do for her. So if I am needed here then here is where I will be. After giving birth to two kids back to back my body went crazy. After my son everything went back just right but after my daughter the answer was NOT. So since then the struggle is on again. I decided that surgery was the answer for me after the diet pills, weight watchers, atkins diet, and eating only diet dinners didn't work. I have a few good people depending on me and I am not about to let them down. So if surgery was my tool to help me get to where I need to be then here I am.
