I would really appreciate it if you could all lift up my friend, Cinda, in your thoughts and prayers. Cinda is part of the anniversary team and sends out hundreds of messages each week to help lift up others on this site. Quite often we get messages telling us that we are the only ones who remembered their special day or understood its significance. Yesterday, a well meaning person sent Cinda a note telling her she'd inadvertently posted to a couple of surgery pages of deceased members and to "be careful". This happens on occasion because we either miss the indications or there is no indication. Each time this happens Cinda feels awful and beats herself up over it. Knowing personally all the hope that each of us place in this surgery, every loss affects us deeply. Cinda is a big hearted, beautiful and caring person who would never purposely hurt anyone. Please send her a message of support to help her through this difficult time!