RobinRN44
My son called me over lunch
Sep 22, 2010
My son just called me on his lunch break and said "Mom, would you feel better if I went with you when you have surgery?" I said "Honey, I'm not afraid of the surgery and I don't know what you would do while I'm there". He said "yeah, I thought I might be bored". I asked him if he would feel better about it if he came with me and he said "Well, if you feel ok about it, I guess I'm ok about it". He's nervous. I wish I could ease his fears, but it really is sweet isn't it? He's such a wonderful young man. I'm truly blessed.
Is it sick that I have told my 21 year old son, but not my husband? My son said "If I were you I wouldn't tell dad until after the surgery or he'll say no". I love my husband dearly, but I just can't tell him.