I imagine it's really, really hard to keep carrying all that guilt around by herself, so she's trying to find others to help her bear the load.

On April 7, 2011 at 11:20 AM Pacific Time, m m wrote: Why do you always throw your mother in my face?

I am not a diabetic woman.

My seizures are NOT connected to blood sugar OR weight loss surgery.

I was TOLD to have an abortion during my first post op RNY pregnancy, I miscarried.  I chose not to abort the child who is now 4.5 years old.  

Why are you putting guilt on people?


  I have not been on here for ages, I was so tired of the picking and mean ****  This is the first thing I see!  I love and admire you. 

 Well, HELLO!  

We're normally nicer than this.  I promise.  I'm just very pissy that someone asked me to have an abortion.  That's all. 

Aw Beth, I know you are. You have been a sweetheart as long as I have been reading you!  I have been a regular for over a year up until recently.  I still jump on now and then.  I am just as intensely against abortion as I am for WLS for those that can benefit from it.  (actually more anti abortion.)   I can totally understand your reaction, but think you may have read more into it than she meant to imply.  Some posts are just an opportunity to rant a bit and let things out.   Not to be taken personally.  If we cannot spew a bit on here with our fellow WLS pals then who will let us??  

I just love m m she is so down to earth and not full of Sh_t like some others on here.

Since she'll never apologize for what she said, I'll do it for her.

I'm sorry Heidi said that to you.

Everyone knows that with any surgery there is a risk of dying, and everyone also knows that women giving birth are always at risk during labor no matter who they are.

You're a wonderful mother and that little girl loves you to pieces. Never regret any decision you make (or have made) for yourself and never let someone on the 'net try to make you feel guilty, either

Maybe your mother should have aborted you, and she wouldn't have ended up as sick as she was. Too bad we don't have time machines to make THAT one happen, right?

LOVE!!

 Ohhhhhhh SNAP!       

And another perspective could be, a person could wonder , IF "HER" mother knew she, herself was going to get so sick in this life, would she have chosen to have aborted her child....hmmmmmm...same kind of idiotic logic that the OP (Heidi) has put out there huh?   SHEESH!

Looks to me like Heidi has some SELF-LOATHING issues going on and her egoistic personality causes her to believe she does not have a problem bad enough to seek professional help...THAT is a problem in and of itself!