Why Did You Bother?
Correct - you're title is "Why Did You Bother?" Why did you waste your time? Why did you exude the effort?
Truth is, it's none of your g*d damn business why ANY of us bothered. Stop judging other people's reasons and keep your eyes on your own path.
I've read a number of your posts and like someone else said; I think you're just miserable.
Truth is, it's none of your g*d damn business why ANY of us bothered. Stop judging other people's reasons and keep your eyes on your own path.
I've read a number of your posts and like someone else said; I think you're just miserable.
On April 7, 2011 at 7:49 AM Pacific Time, MyLady Heidi wrote:
My journey is personal to me, and I am a harsh critic of myself, find me one post where I ever called anyone a name or judged what they did or how they did it, good luck with that because I only judge myself. Religious people believe you are judged by god, I believe that I rule my own life and I judge my own actions, and believe me I fuck up constantly and try to amend my actions. I am not perfect, nor have I ever pretended to be, I come here so I can stay successful by not forgetting, my always keeping my feet on the ground by never forgetting where and how I got where I was and never letting myself go back. My own personal war with my demons. I mock no one ever, I block people before I say anything bad to them because we all have enough b/s in our lives we hardly have to read it here too.
I appreciate your posts Heidi, and can see that you are a very driven person. This is not a bad thing, but your intensity can come across as hard to understand sometimes by folks not so intense. You are wonderful and I enjoy your posts on the average, if posting helps keep you on your toes then go for it. I say whatever works is what we need to do. Good luck always in your journey.
I am only one, But still, I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something. And because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do
the something that I can do.
Edward Everett Hale
Onederland 1/26/2010
find me one post where I ever called anyone a name or judged what they did or how they did it, You don't have to "NAME names", your 'categorized' ! Just as bad..and is still 'judging' others! good luck with that because I only judge myself. THAT's probably yet another one of your major issues...LEARN to LOVE yourself , instead of judging yourself; then you might not be quite so prone to JUDGE OTHERS!
Good luck with that! I honestly feel sorry for you! How miserable you must be!
Good luck with that! I honestly feel sorry for you! How miserable you must be!
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Be the kind of woman that,when your feet hit the floor in the morning,the devil says,"OH NO, She's Up!"
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Let NO ONE STEAL YOUR REASON OR MOTIVATION FOR CELEBRATION ... NO ONE....
I myself will keep myself encouraged each and every day until I die ... with 5 co-morbidities in remission I have a second change at a better quality of life ... I have been off ALL MEDS since the day of my surgery and never have had to give a glance back at a CPAP ...
CELEBRATE YOU MY BEAUTIFUL SISTA!!! obsessed is oftentimes what the unmotivated calls the dedicated ... CELEBRATE WHATEVER IS DEAR AND SPECIAL TO YOU....
I will celebrate each anniversary .. by the day. month, year or minute even of my WLS ... I almost died getting that surgery... had a major complication... left the hospital with all manner of tubes sticking out of me and an ileostomy bag ... and I survived and am well and healthy and mobile today ... NO ONE IS GOING TO STOP ME FROM CELEBRATING .... I have had to work 3-4 jobs to put my kids through college and payed the hospitals through my ear for all the multiple treatments and hospitalizations and copays for my husband from dialysis to kidney transplant to kidney rejections to amputations and today we are both enjoying health ... he never had WLS nor needed it ... I DID ... my diabetes and 4 other co-morbids are in remission ... oh girl I WILL NOT FORGET and I WILL NOT GO BACK...
CELEBRATE MY BEAUTIFUL SISTA! I WILL CELEBRATE RIGHT ALONG WITH YOU... no one really knows the cost of the oil in anyone elses box of alabaster ....
RNY 2/5/07 no regain having implemented lifestyle changes....
I expect no less of you, you are by far my biggest inpiration for being a wls success and a success in overcoming all the problems and pain that life has dealt you and being a gracious and caring, compassionate soul. We need to all rub you for good luck and good will because you are pure goodness walking among us.
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