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hershey dream
on 7/14/16 1:50 pm - Duluth, GA
Topic: RE: Impact On Relationships

Greetings and congratulations on your upcoming surgery.  WLS is a change for both you and your immediate family, some will embrace the new you....some won't.  

My situation was the latter, my husband (now divorced) was not comfortable with the new me.  I was getting smaller, eating healthier, my self confidence improved and he just couldn't handle it.  Hopefully, your significant other will be on the same page, and if not...will be on the same page after a good heart to heart.

Wishing you much success!  

Life is not about making it through the storm....but learning how to dance in the rain.      
Beajay
on 7/13/16 6:27 pm
Topic: RE: Impact On Relationships

Whereas I agree with the others that posted, I do want to add that WLS is a process, a new healthy way of eating and exercise. It's important for both you and your spouse

to be on the same page, with goals for a lifetime change. The process is beautiful when your spouse is supportive. Good luck  to you on a successful surgery and continued happiness with your spouse. 

 

 

Lia D
on 7/13/16 8:29 am - Waldorf, MD
Topic: RE: Impact On Relationships

Ditto to Kyzze post!  Praying for an uneventful surgery for you.  Take care and keep us posted.

Ms. Praise
on 7/12/16 8:15 am - MD
Topic: RE: Glad I'm not the only one " Old School Member"

Hey "old timer"...it's been years and I trust all is well with you.  I'm good...still in the "struggle" but have the knowledge of knowing what I have to do to get back on the grind.

 

Take care...Ms. Praise

kyzze
on 7/7/16 2:47 am
VSG on 12/29/15 with
Topic: RE: Impact On Relationships

If she loves you and she is the one, then there should not be any changes between you two. Wish you the best!

Kyzze

 

Elliot413
on 7/5/16 10:15 am
VSG on 07/12/16
Topic: Impact On Relationships

What unexpected things have you experienced with your spouse or significant other while going through this process?  I am scheduled for surgery in one week.  I'm a little nervous about changes with me and my lady.

Willie H.
on 6/30/16 11:58 am
VSG on 08/26/14
Topic: RE: Weight Gain AFTER surgery? Scary!!!!!

Hey,

 

Thanks for the "MeatTest" suggestion! Just what I needed to get back to low-carb! Although I kept trying to eat low carb I would always cheat and let the carbs creep in! But doing the 5 day Meat Test which is basically no carbs, after 2 days I found I was not hungry and actually extended it to about 8 days, then coming off not eating more than 30 carbs a day. In the interim I lost about 6 lbs and am now back to where I was at my lowest. Although I can do extremes for short periods I still have a problem with any kind of moderation long term which I know is essential for this journey. Anyway, I'm sticking with the low carbs, find myself not very hungry, have energy and haven't had a low blood sugar episode! Again, thanks!

 

-Willie-

  Vertical Gastric Sleeve-(8/26/14)HW 347lbs SW-328lbs CW-247 lbs  GW-212lbs Randolph,                                                                                       "LOVE" is knowing someone has the power to hurt you, yet TRUST that they won't"  "Sing like no one's listening and dance like no one's watching!!"

    

    

        

    

        

shalocvan
on 6/23/16 8:39 am - McDonough, GA
Topic: Apollo Overstitch

I reside in NC and am looking for a surgeon that does the Apollo Overstitch procedure.  Please advise me if anyone is aware of a surgeon within 5oo miles.

How effective is the Overstitch procedure for those who've had one?

Bscott998
on 6/18/16 10:06 am
Topic: RE: Best Products you've used in terms of protein and supplements?

i love premier protein chocolate is the best and sometimes i warm mine up in the microwave. Im 4 years out beginning july 12th.

bruindiva92
on 6/16/16 3:07 pm
Revision on 03/29/17
Topic: RE: Weight Gain AFTER surgery? Scary!!!!!

T,

You are right--I am gradually bring the daily calories down.  My PCP wants me to decrease my calories gradually.  Right now, I am doing 1500 for June.  If all goes well and my PCP gives me the OK, I will drop down to 1200-1300 for the month of July.  

I've checked out the five day meat test--looks like my daily meals already.  Meat, cheese and yogurt.  

So far, I've lost 2 pounds so I am not complaining too much.  

Thanks for the advice.

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