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Hi everyone,
I had gastric bypass done 3 days ago. When I was admitted at the hospital, my weight was 204. Now, only couple days after the procedure, my weight is 210.5. I am so confused... Please help me!!!

I would think you should ask yourself a few questions and be honest with yourself. Am I eating healthy meals in appropriate portions? Is my activity level appropriate for my size and weight, meaning am I active? Do I ever eat because I am bored, upset, fearfull, hurt and/or disappointed? There are usually many factors why a person is obese. It's rarely just one thing. Then, based on your discoveries, you can make a knowledgeable decision. If not, maybe see or talk with someone who works with people with eating issues and he/she may be able to help you with these questions.
How many times can I say thanki you.
Now I'm wondering if my levels have always been high and if this is why my weight has been out of control for many years. Not sure how to go now? Do I delay my this surgrey for a few months to see the meds will really help me with my weight lost or if I continue and get it done in June.
HAS anyone faced this issue???
I saw a commercial the other day and it really resonated with me. It was about making choices and how one good choice can often lead to another. I know that before WLS I often found that if I made 'bad' choice regarding food, I often would often give myself permission to throw in the towel and quit trying to make good choices. I think that the biggest difference for me after WLS is that I'm much more focused on trying to make good choices and much more forgiving when I make a bad choice, realizing that each new choice is a new opportunity to be where I want to be.
Soooo... when you stub your toe and make a less the optimal choice, how do you handle it? Do you handle it any differently after deciding to have WLS?Barbara
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