It's done! He is gone!

imagenthat
on 9/1/11 12:32 am - Bolton, Canada
So he is gone.  I moved out to a new place with the kids.  He cleared out our bank accounts.  He screwed us royally. 

I stayed steady and strong, and I still managed to lose some weight!  No stress eating!

Down 124.3 lbs just 8 days shy of 7 months.

Plus I have had two guys ask for my number!!!!

Life is only going to get better.

Traci
 
    
A T.
on 9/1/11 12:35 am - Hamilton, Canada
 Good for you

You look great, they will be asking for your number.

Sorry about him clearing out your accounts, hope you will be ok.

I am going through the same thing but not with the money.

I will be moving on Sept 18 to a townhouse with my son

I have my surgery scheduled for Sept 6 and still going to do it, it is for
me not for anyone else.

Allison
jcasb5
on 9/1/11 12:36 am
Sorry to hear - but things are only going to get better for you! Stay strong, and lean on your friends here when you need!

None of my business, BUT, he didn't sound much like an upstanding guy to clear out the bank accounts... IMHO...

All the best - stay strong, and keep your focus!!

J
mom4life
on 9/1/11 12:40 am - Port Rowan, Canada
 You have the kids and he cleared out the bank accounts?  Nice guy...

Hope you have contacted a lawyer.

In the meantime, keep your chin up.  Sure sounds like you did the right thing and in the end it will all be for the better.
   

“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning,
  but anyone can start today and make a new ending.? ~Maria Robinson

  
HW:  292 lbs          SW:  226 lbs        Clinic's GW:  160 lbs          My GW: 145 lbs
    
Nathalie_Can
on 9/1/11 1:17 am
love your attitude, you seem strong....we're all here for you tho if you need an ear!

    ~Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you really wanted!~    

StevesGal
on 9/1/11 1:23 am - Hamilton, Canada
By the looks of your posting smiley, you're not that upset about it.  Good for you!!

Looks like you've lost more the 124.3 lbs!

Stay strong, stay positive, but most of all ... stay away from him!  Get a lawyer, fast, and get on his ass for your 1/2 of the money.  My ex would have done the same if I hadn't taken my 1/2 of everything first.

P.S.  I hope you gave those guys your number!!

P.S.S.  When's the bonfire for his leftover clothes.  I'll bring the marshmallows (even if we can't eat them).

Beth

Former RNY patient revising to Sleeve then DS.
Appts: Dietitian - January 21/19; July 16/19, August 13/19, September 17/19, October 15/19; Social Worker: August 23/19; DS Orientation: March 20/19; Internist: September 30/19; Surgeon: November 13/19 (signed consent).
Surgery Date: February 28/20.

MY RNY DIDN'T FAIL ME - I FAILED IT.

Monica M.
on 9/1/11 1:50 am - Penetanguishene, Canada
we can cook veggie dogs on the bonfire.
        
Monica M.
on 9/1/11 1:26 am - Penetanguishene, Canada
i love the new pic, tracey, you can totally see the indent part in your neck!!

good for you for being strong. I wish i was as strong as you are.
        
linda11665
on 9/1/11 8:31 am - Ottawa, Canada
 Hi Monica.....As you would say to others, YOU ARE STRONG.......Didn't it take a strong woman to go through this surgery??????I think so.....

Linda
  
  Choose love, power, and acceptance instead of what we default to which is fear, dependence, and intolerance
Catw
on 9/1/11 2:09 am - Arnprior, Canada
Way to go Traci!  You are doing great!  Creep for clearing out the bank accounts.  I agree, get a lawyer involved.

Good luck on your dates.

Cathy

        

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