I'm nervous...
With all the new energy that you have since you have lost 95 lbs, then sex should be even more enthusiastic.....LOL
Hopefully so, Judy! *LOL*
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I think this is normal - but it sucks for sure. Why can't we just be happy with what we have accomplished?
He will not even notice the floppy skin - you are giving him sex - he isn't thinking of anything else! Trust me!
Secondly, he loves you - the inside you - not the outside you. My hubby has to keep telling me that - someday I might believe him.
And - so I have heard - you are so much smaller that the entire experience will be so different for you both - enjoy the newness and be proud of what you have done.
Enjoy - be sure to let us know how it goes!
Ann
He will not even notice the floppy skin - you are giving him sex - he isn't thinking of anything else! Trust me!
Secondly, he loves you - the inside you - not the outside you. My hubby has to keep telling me that - someday I might believe him.
And - so I have heard - you are so much smaller that the entire experience will be so different for you both - enjoy the newness and be proud of what you have done.
Enjoy - be sure to let us know how it goes!
Ann
Two points: your floppiness is a great way to take him for a test drive for when you are both old and floppy and headed for the home. It would really suck to invest forty years only to find out he'll react badly when you can use your boobs as emergency wheels chocks on your walker. Floppiness now helps with happiness later!
Secondly... make floppiness fun. Remember those paper finger toys we all made as kids by folding paper in fours and writing numbers on the flaps and secret mesaages on the inside? (pick a number....flip, flip, flip, pick a colour...flip, flip flip....secret message is...). Take a non-permanent marker and write secret messages in floppy places. Create a treasure map if you wish. 'X' marks the spot! or more probably, the spot is just slightly to the (left/right) of X
Secondly... make floppiness fun. Remember those paper finger toys we all made as kids by folding paper in fours and writing numbers on the flaps and secret mesaages on the inside? (pick a number....flip, flip, flip, pick a colour...flip, flip flip....secret message is...). Take a non-permanent marker and write secret messages in floppy places. Create a treasure map if you wish. 'X' marks the spot! or more probably, the spot is just slightly to the (left/right) of X
You always know how to make me laugh, Janet. I'm sure Steven would be interested in any floppy games I can come up with. LOL
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I hope you don't mind if a Yank chimes in, Thea!
I think it's so great that you & your longtime friend are now "together." How romantic. I love it.
If you're worried about gettin' it on with your BF & your newly-svelte self (you gotta love that you've lost so much weight grrl... you need to talk to a counselor about having a realistic body image!), I highly recommend:
TEALIGHTS.
Lots & lots of TEALIGHTS.
Okay, maybe not LOTS... but strategically-placed in your bedroom.
Don't forget: Safety first! But tealights shed such a flattering glow on a person...
Have fun! Keep us posted!
I think it's so great that you & your longtime friend are now "together." How romantic. I love it.
If you're worried about gettin' it on with your BF & your newly-svelte self (you gotta love that you've lost so much weight grrl... you need to talk to a counselor about having a realistic body image!), I highly recommend:
TEALIGHTS.
Lots & lots of TEALIGHTS.
Okay, maybe not LOTS... but strategically-placed in your bedroom.
Don't forget: Safety first! But tealights shed such a flattering glow on a person...
Have fun! Keep us posted!
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