OT: Rant : Are We Not Grown Up at this Point in Our Lives. . .

Laureen S.
on 3/3/11 9:46 pm - Maple Shade, NJ

This board is populated with a wonderful group of folks and while at times, just like any family or good friend, occasionally we have a squabble or disagreement over something or another, that is life and mature people find a way to move past it because the reality is that life, especially from this vantage point of being 50+, is a lot shorter and there is little time to be wasted on the petty squabbles that can make one miserable, unless, of course, you are one of those people who cherish that sort of thing.

So if you are lurking, new or even someone who has been on here a long while, grow some skin, learn to laugh, live life as if there is no tomorrow and be kind to one another. I have grown weary reading about people who come here and think that they are being ignored, rejected or laughed at because some of us are busy living life, not sitting on the couch monitoring the computer, responding to each post that comes on or because we choose to see the funny side of life in something and maybe we dare to say it out loud. If you are that easily offended, you have some serious problems that need support from another source, find it, because if you don't this journey will not be a happy one and I've seen it up close and personal within my own social support group.

Sorry, but I just needed to get this off my chest, it's been happening a little too often and perhaps it is just the long winter that has everyone out of sorts, or just some people who need to get with the fact that we are 50+ years of age and with that there comes a time to GROW UP!!!

Thanks for listening. . .

My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . . It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . . Laureen

"Success is a journey, not a destination." Ben Sweetland

Connie D.
on 3/3/11 9:57 pm

RNY on 08/29/07

Laureen.....thank you....vent away!

I agree that I don't think anyone is personally being ignored or left out. We all just have busy lives. Some days we have more time to chat then others. No one should feel offended.

This is a wonderful group of people....I cherish each and everyone of you. There are no other boards like this one. We should all be grateful we have this board and each other!! Even if we don't all get replies all the time. We always know there are people *****ally care right here at anytime!!

Have a wonderful day!!

Hugs......connie d

Monica B.
on 3/3/11 10:06 pm - Emery, SD

RNY on 12/06/04

Rant away sweet women. I never mean to offend or not recognize anyone who comes here to share what is going on in their lives. I depend on you all so much for my new strength and happiness. There are some people who attract us more than others, just as in face to face life. But sharing hugs, love, and caring with all those who come by is part of being here. We help carry each other through good and bad times.
Even though we are mature and wise we sometimes revert to inner child issues of immaturity. Let us get along and walk the journey together.
Hugs, Monica

Nancy H.
on 3/3/11 10:33 pm - Traverse City, MI

RNY on 10/05/05

Laureen, Thank you. There are times I won't post because I have enough drama at home. I don't mean don't post your problems or concerns, just leave the pettiness out. I appreciate all the support, I feel the the pain of all those with problems & rejoice with all the good news! This is one of the few places to talk without judgement.
Nan

Sybul C.
on 3/3/11 10:40 pm - Alma, AR

RNY on 06/18/08

Point well made. I come here everyday and I don't always post but that's just me. I think the world of all of you and enjoy sharing in your lives. I sometimes feel like if I don't have anything positive going on I don't want to burdon everyone with my other stuff. That's just me. I have certainly been on here whining quite a bit. Spring is on the way and I'm going outside to seize the day so to speak. Everyone have a really good one.

MLONG
on 3/3/11 11:16 pm - Wales , MA

RNY on 05/11/04

Well said

Pat R.
on 3/3/11 11:29 pm - Sturgis, MI

RNY on 08/17/07

I don't post as often as I used to on here, because I've had so many medical problems I am sure you all are tired of reading them.....anyway I always appreciate the support I receive here and the many, many friends I have. I read everyday and enjoy hearing about all of our lives...

I'm sorry if someone has been offended by something on here, but we need to act like the adults we are and get over it.

Best wishes to all,
Pat R.

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Debbiejean
on 3/4/11 12:23 am - Shelbyville, MI

Revision on 04/12/07

Not me Pat R.!!!
I love you and am so glad I have met you in real life! Keep posting away my friend. Love ya, Debbie

seasheleyes
on 3/4/11 9:15 am - Manteca, CA

RNY on 12/03/07

No Pat- not tired of reading about them... I know that this is new for you, having pain with no answer. Whine all you want. I do when I'm hurting.
Julia

Laureen S.
on 3/4/11 11:40 am - Maple Shade, NJ

RNY on 10/16/07

Pat,

Share away, we may not be able to alleviate your issues, but we are here to listen, that is what support is about listening, offering, from experience, what can to offer hope, help and if nothing else letting us know how you are. . . we do care about one another here, cyber family that we've become. . .

Hugs, Laureen

My Mantra is that I do not determine my success by the number hanging in my closet, nor will I let the scale determine that success either. . . It is through trial and error I will continue to grow and succeed. . . Laureen

"Success is a journey, not a destination." Ben Sweetland

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