OT - my sorry self
margaret----sister to sister....i DO understand where you are with this and i wish that i could put my words out there....i cannot......
and then there's this--did you not say that you have a MSW????? girlie.....honey.... this weeks class is about Carl Rogers.......center your person, sweetie!!!!!!!
now- if ya wanna smack me ya have to come here to michigan cuz i cannot afford the gas to drive to you....i'm makin lite but its with love for you........
and ya know- candy has a point that the guys are scared off- you are beautiful you are caring and smart.....you are gutsy- look at you doing what you do!!!!! this guy who hurt you is not worthy of you.....and i am NOT jokin about this!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
OK I just read your post and then I called Rick in to look at your photo and asked him what he thought of it. He looked at you for a long time and said he didn't see anything wrong with your looks at all!!!!!!! So what is it that these men are wanting in a woman??? Maybe you should look for a younger guy?? Seems they like older women and aren't so into what the older men want!!! Young girly girls to make them studs...lol. Rick said to keep looking and there IS someone out there for you!! He found me on the internet in a NASCAR chat room!!! :-) (((Margaret)))
Finding someone to share your precious time with should not be that stinging and cause such misery.
Is there a local VA you could volunteer at? They come with BAGGAGE, but there are many there looking for sharing life with women. Gee what do young women and men to meet others?
What about your church, local Home Depot, Lowes, ProBass shop.....I am not being flip....I just haven't thought about this being married since 22. Hey I have only "been" with this one penis my entire life. Love child NOT.
My hubby, as I have said, is very strange, certified crazy, and very open (mouth duct taping dreams for me), he appreciates all women, the young and lovely, and the mature and been here on the real earth women just as much. I point out the women I see and often say to them, what I know he wants to say to them about how they look women, young and old, but he trys to be PC.
My heart is heavy that you are hurting, but I am mad. Sending hugs, Monica
monica....how do you REALLY feel about this subject??????
oh gosh...what a visual.....
margaret i guess you get the idea that there doesn't seem to be anything visibly wrong with you!!!!!!!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
This is a real form of torture used by middle eastern countries over the cenuries. I read about it in a book back in the 1980's. I only GRANT this torture for those who I FEEL TRULY deserve it. Not many over the past 30 yrs have had this wished upon by me. But this asshole who hurt Margaret is a deserving receiptient of the POLE/RAT EATOUT.
it irks the bejesus outta me the things that ppl do to others when they think they can get away with it online.......
i met two husbands online and look at me now!
however i DO understand where margaret is on this one-
candy makes a very good point about the dating scene---
hugs monica!!!!!!
I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White
I think that much of the rejection that I feel comes from the rejection I experienced as a fat woman. Who is more despised and vilified than a fat woman? I've lost 80 pounds and still weigh 170 at 5'6". My friends and colleagues tell me not to lose any more weight, and I believe that these are people who truly care about me. I am top heavy and can't have breast reduction surgery, even though it would be paid for in full here in Canada, because I am 20 pounds heavier than the surgeon wants me to be.
I had cancer 7 years ago with 32 radiation treatments. Radiated flesh does not heal well, so the surgery may never happen.
But I digress. The bigger issue is the way that I feel about myself - old, ugly, fat and never good enough. sorry, my self pity cup runneth over; if I were still menstruating, I would say that my hormones were raging.
I don't usually open myself up like this, but I felt that others would be able to empathize with me.
Thank you for understanding
Margaret
Thank you for sharing with us, we care truly and can relate to many issues that others can't.