Failing to plan is the same as planning to fail

Debbiejean
on 6/16/11 9:45 pm - Shelbyville, MI
Happy Friday Mindful Eaters. Plan for this weekend! Hugs Debbie

Do something Friday

 

Do something Friday

Posted: 17 Jun 2011 03:35 AM PDT

Make a plan.

By now, you probably have a pretty good idea what your weekend is going to hold.  Yard work, grad parties, a trip to the beach.... whatever it is, that is the context in which you are going to be practicing your mindful eating.

Knowing that means you can make a flexible plan to work on mindfulness in those situations. 

Lawn work and a grad party?  Don't work all day without taking time to eat, only to go to the buffet at the grad party and over eat!  Plan to eat a meal or snack when you get hungry doing yard work so you aren't starving when you're presented with all those available party food options.

Same thing goes for heading to the beach.  Sure, you don't need to reflexively snack on chips all day -- let yourself get hungry but not so starving that when you leave the beach you drive straight to Sherman's and order the biggest ice cream sundae on the menu.  That isn't a good recipe for mindfulness.

In this particular case, failing to plan is the the same as planning to fail. 

Make your plan and take the 2 minutes and write it down!  Handwritten or typed, doesn't matter to me.  Just get it on paper.  It will solidify your weekend plan more than just roughly thinking it in your head as you're reading this post.  Then, once you've got it on paper, take it home tonight and tape it to your bathroom mirror -- just for the weekend.  So you can be reminded of your plan and work to achieve it.

 

Connie D.
on 6/17/11 12:39 am
Hello Debbie....I will do the best I can. Good post.

Hugs....connie d
Eliza55
on 6/17/11 10:12 am - PA

Hi Debbie
How true this is.... This week, I forgot to bring my lunch into work, and walked out of the cafeteria with...a meatball pizza.  I'm now back on track on my pre-op diet, but I'll need to remember to keep some protein shakes at work in case this happens again.
Enjoy the weekend.
 

Eliza
Consult:239   SW:217  1mo:195  2mo:182  3mo:169   6mo:139  9mo GOAL CW: +2 from underweight
  
Mag (Marguerite) P.
on 6/18/11 5:56 am - Green Valley, AZ
Hi Debbiejean,
       
           Wish I would have read this yesterday. Yesterday was as close to perfect as I'll ever get while on earth.  Protein in, water in, 1hour of exercise in, ate my first salad since surgery. It was so good, Trying to be good to myself since I'm pretty emotional right now. Bela, the boy cat, is trying to offer his encouragement and support by sticking by nice and close. Animals are smart cookies. 

       Today i wasn't planning it but when the thought came to my mind I was off and running to get something very sweet at the closest fast food restaurant. I now know what dumping is. Yuck-o. I was too
bless-ed sick to fini**** Don't want to go through that again anytime soon.   
Hugs and good vibrations coming your way.     Mag     

           
Margo M.
on 6/18/11 9:12 am - Elyria, OH
sorry you had to dump to learn--i do think, tho, that for us who dump, it's good to dump at least once if we learn from it....does that make sense?????????

when i chose RNY it was for that reason--i needed something to physically stop me from my own choices-no willpower in me!

I get up every morning determined to both change the world and have one hell of a good time. Sometimes this makes planning my day difficult.
- E. B. White

 

Mag (Marguerite) P.
on 6/18/11 9:54 am - Green Valley, AZ
Hi Margo, Thanks for the post. I think it's a good thing for me to know what dumping feels like. I don't want to do that again.    Mag   
           
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