Monday Morning In Michigan

Connie D.
on 8/20/12 11:48 am
Trish....sorry you are back to the BOOT!! I hope and  pray it heals quickly!!

Congrats on the weight loss!!

Love and hugs....connie d
Judy G.
on 8/20/12 4:37 pm - Galion, OH

PRAYERS for you!!!

HUGS


Eileen Briesch
on 8/20/12 11:35 am - Evansville, IN
Hi Jo and my OFF family:

I'm chatting with Carla Klein, who's getting ready to have her hernia surgery. She's at Swedish Hospital; her phone number there is 303-788-5000.
She's not sure of the room number. She will be there overnight at least.

Not much happening here. My brother Gary is really discouraged and I can't pull him out of his depression. I don't know what to do. He won't do anything I suggest. He's been unemployed two-plus years, he can't find a job and won't apply for Medicaid or disability. He won't try making his own job. I can't get him to try anything different.

One of my childhood neighbors died over the weekend. He had leukemia for several years.

Anyway, have a good day.


Eileen Briesch

lap rny 6-29-04

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Connie D.
on 8/20/12 11:56 am
Eileen....sorry about the loss of your childhood friend...so sad!!

Hope Gary can get his life turned around. Saying prayers for
him.

Praying for Carla and hope all goes well for her too!!

Love and hugs...connie d
Judy G.
on 8/20/12 4:38 pm - Galion, OH

Sorry to read this about your friend....sad.

Gosh your brother still hasn't found a job yet? Dam!!!

Any news on Carla? Hope she is ok!!

HUGS


Eileen Briesch
on 8/20/12 5:02 pm - Evansville, IN
Nope, my brother still hasn't found a job and he's really depressed and won't take any of my suggestions or do anything to help himself. I realize it's been hard on him, but he really needs to get himself to the doctor and get some antidepressants. Then, he needs to do something ... get Medicaid, apply for disability ... anything. ******g and moaning about his lot in life is not going to get him anywhere. I know it's rough ... been there ... but when I got laid off ... after him, by the way, I cried for two days, then got going.

As far as Carla goes, I'm at work and can't call her from here. Anyone wants to check on her, call the number. I'm sure she's out of surgery ... hernia surgery doesn't usually take that long (or at least mine didn't ... I had mine outpatient).

Eileen Briesch

lap rny 6-29-04

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Connie D.
on 8/20/12 5:01 am, edited 8/20/12 5:02 am
Good afternoon Jo and everyone....

Jo ....the camping trip sounded like perfect thing to do!! Nice to see your post today!

I had such a wonderful day yesterday, I hung out at home and watched old movies all day. Had a terrific nights sleep too!!

I friend of mine passed away Saturday. He was only 50 years old. He was a great guy!!  So sad to think of him being gone. I have lost so many lately.

I am going tanning in a bit and that is about all the plans I have. I am just taking things easy as my pain levels are all over the place!!

Have a wonderful day everyone!  Prayers for so many in need!!!

Love and many hugs  to all....connie d
Judy G.
on 8/20/12 4:40 pm - Galion, OH

Connie so sorry that you lost another one of your friends!!! Guess we are at the age that we start to lose them now...that sucks!!!

HUGS


Debbiejean
on 8/20/12 6:37 pm - Shelbyville, MI

Good evening OFF family, ready everyone's post. I'm here busy at work but wanted to say howdy.

Jo...glad to hear you had fun camping. I will be going camping right after Labor Day at Ludington State Park, will have less people around and I love quiet times!

Grammylew...so sorry to hear about your cousin and lawyer troubles with the kids. Maybe they both can just go to a cheap paralegal and have it done for $300.00 since they agree on who gets what. I so admire couples who can do that and save thousands of dollars.

Trish...you go girl...a 30 pound weight loss is something to be proud of! Keep it up.

Judy G...I so agree with the other gals, just breathe. Like the song! Fire that dude Randy cuz there are so many more capable people out there looking for jobs and will be glad to have that job. Don't worry about the grass, it will get mowed. Time for some peace and quiet for you my friend.

Eileen...sending you great big hugs, depression is so hard to deal with and your brother Gary does need to suck it up and take charge of his life. Have him call Community Mental Health. They can help him and get paperwork going for him if he qualifies for Disability, they also can get him admitted to a Psych Unit if needed and if CMH approves the hospitalization it's all paid for by CMH and then they start the paperwork along with the hospital workers to get Medicaid approval. Can you tell I work on a Psych unit???? There is help out there for him, he just has to reach out to the right people. Once he's on the right medication and his body is used to the meds, getting the correct dose, then he can look for a job. I'm rooting for Gary, please tell him so.

Connie...Just sitting here pretending to hold your hand my friend. My heart goes out to you. You have lost so many and are dealing with your own depression too. I'm so glad you said you were going tanning, hopefully that will lift your spirits some. I know tanning helps my SD when she gets a little down. Sunshine....we all love sunshine!

So hugs and prayers for all in need. Our lives are like soap operas and we could all star in the movie. My gut continues to give me pain, but I'm pushing through it and making myself walk. These stupid adhesion's are painful when I try to even vacuum the rugs. Ugh! Debbie

Eileen Briesch
on 8/21/12 12:07 am - Evansville, IN
Debbie, I wish I could Gary to do anything for himself. But he won't. He waited so long to start job hunting, then of course there was very little out there. Then he has no idea how to job hunt in this market. I've told him to apply for disability, for Medicaid ... he won't do it. I don't know anything. I've given him some advice on how to find a job, some ideas of getting a part-time job (because in this economy, he might not find  a full-time job again) ... he won't listen to me. And so he whines about his problems instead. I would tell him to get antidepressants, but he'd blow me off on that, too. He is not the kind of person to talk about his feelings to a stranger (hell, no one in my family is ... except for me ... just isn't done... just suck it up and hold it all in, don't let anyone know what's bothering you).

I've tried to help him, but I don't know what else to do. I know he's depressed, but he's got to want help first. He's just as stubborn as my dad was (which is why he died at 62 from colon cancer/kidney failure ... he waited too long to have anything done about it).

Eileen Briesch

lap rny 6-29-04

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