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Thank you for looking into my past posts. I sincerely appreciate it!
If the amount left was a small amount, I would agree that enough is enough, but there are at least 6-8 inches left of hanging skin going down each thigh (no fat) that he could remove much of and still not be tight. If he was being conservative, he was ultra-ultra-ultra conservative. The scars down the thighs are totally fine and healing almost invisibly. It is at the 4-way intersections near the groin that opened. I don't think he even needs to go near there to fix the problem. It would be from maybe 3-4" down from the groin to just above the knee. My dread is the incredible discomfort again. There has been NO stress on the incisions down the thigh. Just pain.
I'm not crazy -- I've worked on my body for 13 years. I'm moving to Florida after I retire next June and I want to be able to wear shorts and skirts and not walk around still embarrassed. My arms, 12 years later, are hanging like an older person's arms would hang, and I don't care. I had them done when they were bat wings, and now I'm older and it is natural. I'm not being unreasonable, needing to be perfect. My calves are very wrinkled and so be it. I could use a facelift, but not happening anytime soon. But these thighs just horrify me and I have to have one more chance to feel better walking around after all this. Thank you everyone for listening and understanding and caring enough to give me pause.
Marla
Marla a/k/a Feistyemm
Surgery Date: 4/21/2005; HW: 333/ SW: 271/ CW:133/ GOAL: 150 or UNDER
Highest BMI: 54.7; BMI Now: 22.6 -- Jeans before surgery: 32. Now: 6
PS: 2006/7 LBL, Bracheoplasty & Upper Thigh Lift. 8/2012: UBackLift & Breast Implants
(redone 3 times). 7/17/18: vertical thigh lift (needs to be redone - left too much skin) &
replacement of 1 breast implant due to rupture (still needs to be fixed due to placement).
I read through some of your older posts. It seems you do experience skin openings as a fairly regular consequence of surgeries. I would imagine that these are not only painful, but dangerous and susceptible to infections.
While I recognize that you are disappointed in the results, it would not seem worth the risk to fix the isssue. We are our own worst critic and everyone has flaws. But trying to fix yours could very well result in more damage. From the information you provided, it doesn't seem as if the risk is worth the reward in this case.
~Jen
RNY, 8/1/2011
HW: 348 SW: 306 CW:-fighting regain GW: 140
He who endures, conquers. ~Persius
I know very, very little about plastic surgery, but this was my thought as well, Hala. It seems he recognized the OP's lack of elasticity and was conservative as a result in order to minimize a very likely side effect.
~Jen
RNY, 8/1/2011
HW: 348 SW: 306 CW:-fighting regain GW: 140
He who endures, conquers. ~Persius
Just a question- since you mentioned your age and poor skin elasticity - maybe he removed only major portion - but left some in so the new wounds don't open?
My friend had a very aggressive thighs surgery. Unfortunately, due to swelling and lack of skin elasticity- her wounds open and it took her close to a year for rveverythi to close up. During that time she also developed some tissue necrosis, and her scares are really bad even now - app. 5 years post op. Plus they can't be revised, because there is not enough of skin left.
Hala. RNY 5/14/2008; Happy At Goal =HAG
"I can eat or do anything I want to - as long as I am willing to deal with the consequences"
"Failure is not falling down, It is not getting up once you fell... So pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again...."
The pic on the left was the night before. The one on the right was at 12 weeks. I'm 5.5 months out now and feeling good. In fact, good enough that I had a breast lift with implants yesterday and really feeling good
Fabulous!
Marla a/k/a Feistyemm
Surgery Date: 4/21/2005; HW: 333/ SW: 271/ CW:133/ GOAL: 150 or UNDER
Highest BMI: 54.7; BMI Now: 22.6 -- Jeans before surgery: 32. Now: 6
PS: 2006/7 LBL, Bracheoplasty & Upper Thigh Lift. 8/2012: UBackLift & Breast Implants
(redone 3 times). 7/17/18: vertical thigh lift (needs to be redone - left too much skin) &
replacement of 1 breast implant due to rupture (still needs to be fixed due to placement).
I appreciate your comments and completely understand how you could wonder how I would go back again and again... I started with my surgeon (I'd rather not give his name) a year after my surgery in 2006. He did my lower body lift and bracheoplasty at that time. The arms were and are fine, and my stomach area is indeed a work of art. Still, after 12 years! I've never seen better. At that time my back opened up, which was truly traumatic. That was not his fault. My skin is older and non-elastic. I eventually healed and it is fine. He also did my upper thigh at that time, which was also fine. The breasts were an issue again due to non-elasticity and probably my previous breast surgery in 1984 when I had a major reduction. So the issues that occurred when I had my initial problems in 2012 with the breasts were unexpected, and he was determined to get it right no matter what. I don't believe these were his fault and he eventually had to put in an internal bra, which did the trick. I am upset THIS time because he should have foreseen the traveling implant when changing it due to the past experience.
As for not taking out enough from the thighs, this I am pissed off about. It is obvious that there was a lot more to remove the moment I removed the dressings. I did a lot of reading this week about the sensitivity and possibility of the wounds opening up -- I am not so special in this case. But not removing enough to make a real difference is what I'm livid about. But at this point I am NOT going to go to someone else to fix it. I know he will take care of it and get it right. He has done my whole body and, other than the thighs, I've been satisfied with my results. Fixing the breast is very minimal in terms of recovery, pain and time. So I'm just bugged with that part. I've never read on here that a surgeon eats the whole fix when it doesn't go right. He stands behind his work, which eventually is right. I can't imagine at this point going to someone else. I blew my money on this, and there's no more for anyone else. He WILL take care of me. I'm just PISSED.
Marla a/k/a Feistyemm
Surgery Date: 4/21/2005; HW: 333/ SW: 271/ CW:133/ GOAL: 150 or UNDER
Highest BMI: 54.7; BMI Now: 22.6 -- Jeans before surgery: 32. Now: 6
PS: 2006/7 LBL, Bracheoplasty & Upper Thigh Lift. 8/2012: UBackLift & Breast Implants
(redone 3 times). 7/17/18: vertical thigh lift (needs to be redone - left too much skin) &
replacement of 1 breast implant due to rupture (still needs to be fixed due to placement).
on 8/11/18 8:38 am
Thanks for sharing and good luck to you. Can I ask who your doctor was?
My plastic surgeon is a true artist. Everything is done perfect the first time. What a nightmare to have one who wants to practice on you until he gets it right. He should be paying you for using you as his experiments.

Real life begins where your comfort zone ends
That sounds horrible. But why do you keep going back to that same surgeon, when he's never got anything right the first, or even the second time around? One botched surgery would have been enough for me.
6'3" tall, male.
Highest weight was 475. RNY on 08/21/12. Current weight: 198.
M1 -24; M2 -21; M3 -19; M4 -21; M5 -13; M6 -21; M7 -10; M8 -16; M9 -10; M10 -8; M11 -6; M12 -5.