What do I tel my......
I told my six year old that I was going to the hospital to have surgery to get healthier. But her brother had surgery when she was 5 so she was familiar with the idea. My then 2 year old I didn't say anything to other then mommy was gone a few days.
I don't think you have to give specific details, but i think kids should have a general idea of what is going on, heaven forbid something happen.
I don't think you have to give specific details, but i think kids should have a general idea of what is going on, heaven forbid something happen.
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My kids 3 7 10 11 all know I will be gone and having surgery to lose weight and get healthy. They visited me when I had my son and were ok with it. Gma is coming to be with them it is a treat!
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My kids were younger 4 & 5 , I told them I was running the house and fell and got a boo boo on my tummy .... soooo no running in the house ....(2 for the price of one) and that I will be home soon, and I called them and spoke to them on the phone and they drew pictures for me..it was fine...when I got home I said my boo boo is healing and they have to be gentile and that for easter I didnt want candy because I want to be skinny and healthy so I can run around and play with them time will fly, they will be busy with school, I think we worry more than they do.
RNY on 04/03/12
with every surgery I've ever had (several) I told my kids the what and why because my counselor told me it was better for them to know because their minds could come up with far worse things thanks to society. I didn't want them to think I was sick or had cancer or was going to die. I explained the surgeries simply so they could understand and made sure I called them as soon I was awake enough to.
My kids are older now 12,13,21,23 they all know. My 13 and 21 year olds are nervous but the doctor is speaking to them at my pre op visit to reassure them.
My kids are older now 12,13,21,23 they all know. My 13 and 21 year olds are nervous but the doctor is speaking to them at my pre op visit to reassure them.