WOW!!!! He "MIGHT" be cheating....

 A week ago I walked into my bedroom and my husband was on phone TEXTING... mind you he "doesn't" like it. SOoO mentioned nothing and a day goes by Wednesday and after work her informs me that his boss is having a few beers at his place with a few guys to celebrate his bbf new baby boy, uuuhhhhmmmmm he doesn't like associating with them at work but he went to have a beer with them. OK I GUESS, then yesterday I had alone time with his phone, and there's a text from Monday.

Is there a reason I should be mad at you.

Him...
No why LOL 

You seem to never text me after work it sound like you might have a girlfriend or a wife. 

No answer after that, no texts from Tuesday or Wednesday I'm guessing he forgot to erase that one day. Not only did he not support me getting WLS BUt now he's talking to someone. SMFH. SOoO of course I got the number, then he walked in while I'm on his phone, and he's nervous, he's showing me how to find pics then he takes the phone upstairs, 15 min he's asking if I'm ok that I seem MAD hahahahaha freaking douchbagg has no flipping idea. Well I vented, thanks for listening. Oh I'm 6 weeks out.

WOW..So Sorry, if he is, hopefully he's not. DId you come right out and ask him? I caught my ex-husband in the same way...Vent away girl, I don't blame you for being upset...

Ummmmmm... if you are ignoring the signs, nothing short of finding him in bed with her will make you believe it.

 Im so sorry hun.. I have no idea why people feel this is ok. I hope that you are ok.. Focus on you and getting to your goal and you will have men lining up wanting to talk/text you. Unfortunatly some people are douch bags. 

BTDT - divorcing now ...   Sorry!

I'm amazed at the recent posts from people wondering if their partner is cheating when texting other women and behaving in generally suspicious, inappropriate ways.

 It was written in a sarcastic way... "might". I'm aware that wether physical or emotional involvement with someone else is cheating.  

 Go with your gut feeling, it's almost always right.  Flags go up for a reason.

Call him out on it.  Talk to him about it asap instead of letting it fester.  Even better, get her number off the phone and call the chick yourself.

*I* would have shown up at whatever place it was they were having beers just to see if he were there.  If he weren't all his stuff would have been out on the lawn before he got home.

Oh sorry this is happening to you.

He's cheating.  I cannot figure out how to give him the benefit of the doubt.  Whether it's physical I don't know but he's definitely made a point to lie about his wife to someone so this is a woman.  He's checked out whether physically or mentally.

I hope that you will have the courage to deal with this head on.   I wish you nothing but future happiness. 

Dawn

 I'm so sorry you're going thru this! Cheating doesn't have to be physical, though as human are opportunistic - it may go there if left unchecked. No duh you're mad! Very obtuse IMHO. If you want to work this out with him, get thee to a counselor/therapist/pastor/etc. If you don't, I'm sure there are OH members near you that would help you set fire to all his possessions on the front lawn!