ogling women at the zoo today

My husband and I took three of my kids to the zoo on this beautiful day.  The teenager is too cool for the zoo, of course.  My surgery is tomorrow!  Eek!  I have a strange question.  Do you find yourself looking at thinner women wondering what you will look like when you lose weight?  I kept finding myself doing that at the zoo, kind of weird.  I hope nobody noticed me staring at their butt! 

LOL!!! My brain has not caught up at all with my weightloss. I look down at my belly skin/fat and still feel morbidly obese. I look at women all the time wondering "Do I look loike that?" "Am I smaller than her"" I ask my husband and/ or any poor unsuspecting friends the same thing "See that woman over there in the blue top...am I her size?" The moral of the story is that your oogling may not stop post op. Best of luck sweetie!

I totally do this.... My poor husband and kids!

At least you weren't grabbing their butts to see if they were saggy or not! Yeah, I still (5 weeks out) look at people and wonder what it will be like. Sometimes I feel like a voyeur checking out some of the before and after pics too. LOL

I didn't really do it until I got below goal and realized that my boobs looked like deflated water balloons. We live in sunny NW Florida where boobs jobs are more popular than the men we find in military uniforms. I've caught myself a couple 100 of times asking my husband "hey, what hers?" (talking about her implant size, shape, body proportion etc etc). He's not a boob man so he doesn't get it. The first time I asked my bestie about a chick's boobs her reply was "is there something else you need to tell me?" So, I'm super guilty of checking out fake boobies, and wondering what they'd look like on my body.

 Yeah I am guilty of it I look at boobs and butts.. I have lucious thighs so I am not worried about those haha..  I also look to see if I am the biggest of the ladies im hanging out with ..oops... 

I compare myself to other women constantly. Am I bigger/smaller/the same as her? I feel weird for doing it too, but aparently, it's common enough. lol

I think most women, big or small do it!

AniO

7 months post-op...GUILTY! Still do it to this day. As I get closer to goal I think I am getting worse...It's frustrating  

yep...I was at the dr's office the other day and was facinated by a woman's legs...they were strong muscled and beautiful...